MetaFilter ([syndicated profile] metafilter_feed) wrote2025-11-11 02:00 am

In Dark Times, a Little Darkness Can Be Soothing

Posted by GenjiandProust

The dark season is closing in (in the northern hemisphere, yes), and we can enjoy new seasons of Modem Prometheus (Anthology with Frame) and The Phosphene Catalogue (somewhere between an Audio Drama and an Anthology with Frame). It's been a while, so expect another round up before the end of the year. Oddly, there are a number of shows this time that are game tie-ins.

Stories with LGBTQ characters and elements are identified when possible. Podcasts with frequent or severe content warnings are noted as are those which provide transcripts. All the podcasts are accessible via most podcast apps and aggregators (although, weirdly, some apps seem to not catch entire seasons of some of the shows). Most of the series have episodes that run ~25-35 minutes; Exceptions will be noted. Shows are identified as: • audio drama – stories with continuing plots and casts, either open- or closed-ended • anthology – stand-alone stories with no continuity • anthology with frame – stand-alone stories with some kind of continuity that ties the series together but (usually) does not affect the stories 400 Words A Horror (Anthology) Short horror and weird fiction stories by new creators still learning about audio storytelling, although occasionally better-known voice actors lend their talents. As a result, the writing and acting varies quite a bit, and those seeking very professional productions will want to look elsewhere, but the Longer episodes tend to have multiple stories with a connecting theme. Transcripts in the show notes. Frequency: irregular (sometimes biweekly, sometimes monthly) Length: 20-40 minutes Tone: Varied LGBTQ: mostly queer stories by mostly queer creators Two seasons (16 episodes; ongoing) Website At the Bottom of the Garden (Audio Drama) There are fairies at the bottom of our garden. It's a good first line. Straightforward, but evocative. Obviously indicative of genre, without giving away too much. Sets clear expectations in the reader for the story that's going to follow. You know what you're getting into, with a first line like that. Except, it isn't the first line to a story. It isn't from a book, a magazine, or even a website. It's the first line of a journal. Aiden begins to research his great great aunt's journal and discovers increasingly weird things. As he gets drawn deeper into the mystery, he and his boyfriend Chris try and unravel the mystery before it dooms both of them. Format warning: use of distortion and disorienting sound effects. Transcripts available. It looks like the story is completed. Length: mostly 5-30 minutes Tone: Folk horror, fairies, paranormal investigation LGBTQ: trans narrator Complete story (40 episodes) Website Baron Sordor's Theatre of the Doomed (Anthology) This podcast aims to take you back to a golden age when live radio plays ruled the airwaves and Orson Wells' Mercury Theatre convinced an entire nation they were under attack by Martians. Paying homage to 1960's classics like the Twilight Zone and The Outer Limits as well as some of the masters of modern sci-fi and horror like King, Carpenter, Peele, Dick and Gibson, Baron Sordor's Theatre of the Doomed is an anthology podcast that takes its listeners on a journey to the darkest recess of the human mind. Full-cast episodes, with a mix of one-shots and 2- and 2-parters. No transcripts, but there is a novel of the 3-parter. Frequency: irregular (every 2-4 months) Length: 60-120 minutes Tone: Varied LGBTQ: little to none Two seasons (11 episodes; ongoing) Website Black Velvet Fairies (Audio Drama) Upon her death, Lucy Verdell's estranged grandmother leaves her four black velvet paintings of fairies. But not twinkly sprites — stoic beings with wings of light and grim intent. As Lucy investigates her family's connection to the artwork, she uncovers a web of believers who will do anything to reconnect Earth with the mysterious fairy-world known as Hada. This is part of a multi-media world with a novel and tie-in games. It also has an in-world tie-in blog. Frequency: weekly Length: 15-30 minutes Tone: investigating a mystery; interdimentional travel LGBTQ: none One season (13 episodes; supplemental episode) Website Brittle Tourniquet (Audio Drama) After some bad luck and some bad choices, Jenny Bitters has lost her cabal, her lover, and most of her self respect. So she decides to get back in the villain game by summoning Arida, a lost and forbidden goddess, and take on the world of gods and cabals. With some more questionable decisions, she finds herself committed to an impossible heist and opposing the worst sorts of gods. Transcripts available on the website. Length: 30-50 minutes Tone: competing magical organizations LGBTQ: trans woman narrator, other trans and queer characters Complete story (8 episodes) Website Broken Veil (Audio Drama) Writers Will Maclean (The Apparition Phase) and Joel Morris (Charlie Brooker's Wipe) investigate weird, unsettling, possibly supernatural stories that have affected their friends, and explore the places where they might have happened. As they dig into the upsetting stories, a larger picture seems to take shape. I classified this as an audio drama, but the first 4 or so episodes are more like an anthology with a frame. Length: 30-50 minutes Tone: investigations of weird events, rising conspiracy LGBTQ: none significant Complete story (6 episodes) Apparently, no website, although it's also hosted on YouTube Clawmoor Heights (Audio Drama) Agatha Quinn, a truefolk historian, risks professional ruin when she's drawn into the turbulent affairs of a dying Baron and his idle children as he attempts to preserve his family's legacy. Part fantasy, part horror, part country house murder mystery, this podcast is part of a larger media project, with a TTRPG (Our Brilliant Ruin), a comic, and a video game. Also posted to YouTube. Length: 20-30 minutes Tone: Fantasy world in decay and mystery-solving LGBTQ: lesbian supporting characters Complete story (10 episodes) Website Fabric (Audio Drama) After the death of her parents, Leyna Canary discovers a cache of strange audio tapes hidden in their attic, each labeled with an unfamiliar name — Lucas Canary. As she unravels their origins, Leyna is pulled into a shadowy world of malevolent supernatural forces and the black-book task force keeping them at bay, leading her across rural New South Wales, Australia — and into the heart of something far more dangerous than she could ever imagine. A new season is expected in 2026. Frequency: season one was released in 3 batches across 2 weeks Length: 25-30 minutes Tone: conspiracy, men in black LGBTQ: none One season (9 episodes; ongoing) Website Go I Know Not Wither (audio drama) Follow Sasha, as they drive through the Siberian woods telling their story into a tape recorder so that it will be kept alive. Stories after all only live if others take their weight too. Knowing this, Sasha relays their life from birth, when they gained powers, all the way to the mysterious events that left them only with a truck, a tape recorder, and a bloody jacket. Oh, and we can't forget the wolf. Based on Russian folklore and tales. Length: 15-25 minutes Tone: folk horror LGBTQ: a gender variant narrator Complete story (10 episodes) Apparently, no website The Greatest Matter (Audio Drama) On a cold winter's evening in Dublin in the late 1890s, Professor Cesare Lombroso, a renowned Italian criminologist, arrives in the city to give a public talk. In attendance are Frances, a novelist keen to learn more about the distinguished professor's work, and Margaret, a hard-working Dublin journalist. Meanwhile, a man has been gruesomely murdered in the nearby Phoenix Park, and the authorities appear to be covering it up. As the Dublin Metropolitan Police begin inquiries, a powerful English military commander leads a sinister parallel investigation, and Frances and Margaret become increasingly intent on solving the crime, and the wider coverup, no matter the cost. The murder, Frances and Margaret soon come to realise, may have disturbing connections with spiritualism. Transcripts available on the website. There may be a second story coming. Length: 25-35 minutes Tone: governmental corruption and spiritualism LGBTQ: lesbian couple Complete story (12 episodes) Website Nightfall (Anthology) Nightfall was a radio drama series produced and aired by CBC Radio from July 1980 to June 1983. While primarily a supernatural/horror series, Nightfall featured some episodes in other genres, such as science fiction, mystery, fantasy, and human drama. Some of Nightfall's episodes were so terrifying that the CBC registered numerous complaints and some affiliate stations dropped it. Length: 30-35 minutes Tone: Twilight Zone LGBTQ: none One season (71 episodes) Apparently, no website Unknown 9: Out of Sight (audio Drama) Blake Elrich is an investigative paranormal podcaster cursed with knowing things he wishes he didn't. Along with his enigmatic producer Lazari, he travels the country seeking out regular people with uncanny stories—those with knowledge of the Unknown. As you'll soon discover, the strange cases, eerie locations, and peculiar characters Blake and Lazari encounter all have essential ties to the larger universe. Part of a larger media property, including a video game. The story continues in a new series. Length: 30-45 minutes Tone: paranormal investigation, occult plots LGBTQ: none Threes seasons (27 episodes) Apparently, no website Voices of the Trench (Anthology) Between centuries of suffering and torment, many stories can be told: of good and evil, faith and heresy, naive longing and forbidden desire. In another age, the veneer of civilization would have been thicker and the boundaries between categories more blurred. But this is not the age of the Trench Crusade. So let us listen to ... the voices of the trench. Medium length fan fiction based on the Trench Crusade miniatures rules – men and women cast into horrifying seemingly endless conflict making difficult choices with their souls as the fuel and cost. Frequency: irregular, weekly to monthly Length: 60-75 minutes Tone: WWI with demons and worse things LGBTQ: none One season (7 episodes; ongoing) Apparently, no website
私信 まるです。 ([syndicated profile] maru_feed) wrote2025-11-10 11:00 pm

秋晴れの庭。The garden with clear autumn weather.

Posted by mugumogu

みりはまたすごい所に座ってるね! Miri, you’re sitting in a great place! ぽかぽか太陽の下で一緒に日向ぼっこしているはなみり。 はなはすぐに背中が熱いくらいに温まるけど、 […]
MetaFilter ([syndicated profile] metafilter_feed) wrote2025-11-10 09:22 pm

elk min - kiln me - el mink - elm kin - ℕ

Posted by JHarris

Hello everyone, it's time for a new LINKME post! It's a kind of free thread, but where the main purpose is for people to contribute links they like but for some reason they don't want to make in a full post. Maybe you don't want to deal with comments, or don't think it's important enough for the front page, or think it'd be too much effort to make a post? And then others, if they choose, can take your links and make a full post about them. It's the no stress place for things you've found on the web. Inside is a recap of the last linkme thread.

If you decide to make a post on a contributed link, it'd be nice if you could link to the comment that inspired it, and include the tag linkme in the post. Here are the major links from last month's post. It's still possible to give these sad little links https://www.metafilter.com/contribute/post_preview.mefia good home in a FPP! Glinn: Robert Irwin (son of Steve) on Dancing with the Stars Art_Pot: voting inside a stuff blue whale in Sweden (Reddit) as_night_falls: photos from a month-long closure of Joffre Lakes Park in British Columbia chavenet: "Wanda Kinsky and Related Matters," on Thomas Pynchon aleph: Machine Learnability as a Measure of Order in Aperiodic Sequences, an academic paper Wobbuffet: Excerpts from a book on visiting cemetaries Wobbuffet: On Jane Austen, Laura Klein on music Jane Austen listened to, including Youtube playlists, and a lithub post on Why We're Still Reading Jane Austen on he 250th Birthday Wobbuffet: The Oxford Ancient Languages Society uploaded a video to Youtube of a production of Euripides' Orestes in its original Greek, and videos about its recreation, and Barnard College's production of Euripides' Herakles jamjam: A Thermometer For Measuring Quantumness JHarris (I wonder who that could be): the 512KB Club lists websites that are less than half a megabyte in size (posted to the front page by chavenet here) JHarris: TechCrunch on a project to create an open source printer sciatrix: a Tumblr post containing notes from the book Grey Ghosts and Red Rangers, about the history of fox hunting in the US, which wasn't always about harming the fox which_chick: a link about growing and caring for the house plant Pothos, which is actually only the young form of the plant, and its adult form, and a Youtube video about caring for that form dick dale the vampire: A Sudoku "metroidvania," Sudokuvania: Digits of Despair eekernohan: Morten Rank-Henriksen on salty licorice, on Tiktok chromecow: An essay on wank, defined as careless speech designed to gratify/soothe the speaker, as opposed to Bullshit (PDF), it turns out this link had already been FPP'd in September metahawk: presents Anthropic's paper about tracing the thoughts of a LLM (summary) JoeZydeco: Fire destroys South Korea's cloud storage system, no backups lock robster: The Good Driver Paradox, I build a fake dumpster for stealth camping, reverse engineering obfuscated C code, and how programmers flex on each other, with explanation lock robster: Catalytic converters are simple, but getting them to work is not paduasoy: beautiful black cats on Finch (Reddit), although note that some of the cats have since deceased chavenet: a photo of Timothy Leary's copy of Gravity's Rainbow (Reddit) paduasoy: Making a Tartan Armadillo without a pattern (posted to the front page by me) gudrun: (Substack) Zombies and Vampires (and anti-vaxxers), by Josh Hartigan 99_: from Bluesky, Bari Weiss' memo to CBS News, good for angrying up the blood JopeZydeco: a visual archive of Byte Magazine mittens: an article about LLMs and creativity, FPP made by chavenet paduasoy: a report from the 2025 Knitting History Forum Conference paduasoy: the Brighton cat tour JHarris: the 100 year history of Barney Google and Snuffy Smith, which I then made into a FPP paduasoy: an articule about knitted or crocheted post box toppers in the UK from 2022 99_: the Youtube page of DJ Bobby Ghanoush
MetaFilter ([syndicated profile] metafilter_feed) wrote2025-11-10 09:20 pm

In Praise of dhh

Posted by maupuia

A reflection on Ruby's past, present, and future. From: "He could be arrogant, and brash. He was maybe a little too self-satisfied. But on the whole I would say he was someone I admired, someone I looked up to. He was a role model." to: "I have good news for you, though: assholes are a minority. People of conscience, people with good will and good intentions have always outnumbered psychopaths and sycophants."
MetaFilter ([syndicated profile] metafilter_feed) wrote2025-11-10 09:09 pm

BAM: The future (and present and past) of the left of the dial

Posted by glaucon

Act I: They're Kicking Us Out of the Station "...I didn't see the transmitter turn off" | Act II: A Declaration of the Independence of Cyberspace, or The Takeover | Act III: I'll try to find you left of the dial | Epilogue: Take Action

Act I: They're Kicking Us Out of the Station..."I didn't see the transmitter turn off" A Thoughtless Takeover It all happened suddenly on a Zoom call Friday morning on October 3rd, 2025 in Cleveland, OH. After months of private negotiations, WCSB employees learned that effective immediately, WCSB programming was being handed over to Ideastream Public Media, Cleveland's local CPB and NPR operator for TV and Radio. The station would immediately transition to playing Jazz as JazzNEO, moving away from independent, student run campus radio free-form format. Not only was the change sudden, but CSU had police escort WCSB station staff off property, leaving them scrambling to try and save decades of archives, station memorabilia and more. Worse, Cleveland State didn't prepare for backlash over the whole thing, with university officials giving public criticism little thought. What was (is?) WCSB to Cleveland? The host of Odd Girl Hour on WCSB writes about her personal loss. A Profound Loss Of course, Ideastream itself is facing increased pressure due to federal funding cuts. They've now added local community protest and support for WCSB to their list of troubles, in addition to a key question about whether or not the deal was even legal to begin with. Harsh scrutiny is being placed not just on Ideastream, but CSU and CSU President, Laura Bloomberg, who offered a typical crisis PR statement about the change. Interestingly, she was granted a seat on Ideastream's board as a result of the takeover. WCSB may never return. The history of similar takeovers offers yet another chilling look into the current political and quality of life challenges facing America with respect to media consolidation and on campus free speech. WCSB incomplete archives here and here. Act II: A Declaration of the Independence of Cyberspace, or The Takeover 97x: The Future of Rock & Roll (sadly) 97x was my station growing up. You may have heard of it because of the movie Rain Man. Their slogan, "97x: The future of Rock and Roll" led station breaks or played before songs, and was adapted by Dustin Hoffman during filming as a repeated phrase for his character because the crew listened to WOXY during filming in Cincinnati. This station was my lifeline to music that didn't fit into acceptable, mainstream America. Each Memorial Day, starting in 1989, they featured the definitive list of 500 modern rock songs, adapted year-over-year as newer music appeared and influenced the landscape. You can review the lists here. Other radio stations featuring classic rock, oldies and other nostalgic or top 40 music had started aligning decades prior to play the same music across the country. But in the 70's and 80's, 97x and a host of college radio stations like it offered important platforms for unique, brown, queer, artistic voices that were largely ignored on the commercial stations, bringing incredible music to American airwaves. And these stations, artists and songs were important for Gen X youth, restless and anxious as they were, always seeking ways to assert independence. Alternative and independent music was one of the key elements for shaping their worldview. The future should have been bright for independent media like 97x. But something changed. 97x was sold to First Broadcasting Investment Partners for $5.6 million in January 2004. Side Note: First Broadcasting Investment Partners was a vulture capital firm founded by Ron Unkefer, a CSU grad. Is it too much to wonder, despite this not being mentioned anywhere in media reporting, if he was an advisor on the WCSB "deal" with Ideastream? And because of the WOXY acquisition, as for many other stations like it, 97x had their last terrestrial broadcast on Thursday, May 13, 2004, a definitive moment for me, listening and crying in bed along with the DJs as they signed off, one by one, until the very last goodbye from station manager Steve Baker after playing "Sunday, Bloody Sunday," the first song they ever played on 97x. His goodbye is preserved forever here.* So, how in the goddamn hell did the 90's (nearly completely) kill college radio? We can broadly thank the Telecommunications Act of 1996, passed 91-5 in the Senate and signed by Bill Clinton into law on February 8, 1996. The law's purpose was to foster competition while relaxing media ownership regulations. It also removed the cap on radio station ownership rules. There was also a measure to prohibit indecency and obscenity on the Internet, though this was ruled unconstitutional. Except for Section 230, which enabled the growth of the internet but at what cost? Other free thinkers of the day recognized that relaxing media ownership rules (and permitting more monopolistic behavior from broadband corporations) would be, ah, not good. Radio homogenization resulted in catastrophic consequences for the industry: -More than a third of all US radio stations had been bought and sold -Of the 4,992 total stations across 268 set radio markets, almost half are now owned by a company owning three or more stations in the same market -The number of stations owned by the ten largest companies increased by roughly fifteen times between 1985 and 2005 Lydia Polgreen summed up much of the consolidation in a 1999 piece for Washington Monthly, The Death of Local Radio. Act III: I'll try to find you...left of the dial What's left when you're left? For WCSB, some supporters hope that WCSB can be re-established. I am xcsb has popped up to offer hope for the future of WCSB, not only to help continue to build community support to try and reverse the takeover, but providing info about activities to help. This includes a weekly, Friday DJ set in November with WCSB DJs at a great local venue to stay connected and support efforts to re-establish WCSB. And for 97x, there was a bit of rebirth in 2023, at least for the Modern Rock 500. You can see the list here. But most importantly, there are signs Gen Z may be listening to college radio in greater numbers, offering hope and skepticism. Epilogue: Take Action WCSB xcsb.org is encouraging people to sign a petition at Change.org to bring back WCSB From the xcsb website, they are also encouraging supporters to call to try and restore WCSB to the airwaves (you can find that yourself if you're so inclined) This Thursday, November 13th, 2025: Join KEXP (more below) by tuning in for Music Heals: Grief Organizations / Other College Radio Foundation Music First Coalition Great current college / alt radio stations: KEXP (Listen here on the station site | Live show archive on YouTube with interviews) Listen to college radio stations The 7 Best College Radio Stations You Can Listen to Online 30 amazing college radio stations From Reddit: What's popular in college radio right now? Any recommendations for good radio stations? 97x history The History of 97x The definitive 97x archive, maintained by former DJ, Craig Froehle More about 97x here Metafilter post about 97x More about radio & media consolidation here, here, here, here, here *Yes, I cried again relistening to that last broadcast while making this post, and always will.
MetaFilter ([syndicated profile] metafilter_feed) wrote2025-11-10 08:41 pm

Alt-Choc

Posted by chavenet

After hovering mostly between $1,000 and $3,000 per metric ton for decades, cocoa prices rocketed to about $12,500 at the end of last year. Bad weather, blight and aging trees combined to cause massive crop failures in West Africa, where roughly 70% of the world's cocoa is grown. Illegal mining, driven by soaring gold prices, has also ravaged small-scale farms in Ghana. Although prices have moderated, I don't believe this crisis is at an end. Cocoa remains much more expensive in nominal terms than ever before in recorded history. Unless there are profound changes in how and where it's grown, there's no reason to expect a return to steady, lower prices. No wonder the confectionary industry is rushing to limit its exposure. from I Saw a Vision of Chocolate's Future in an Amsterdam Brownie [Bloomberg; ungated]
MetaFilter ([syndicated profile] metafilter_feed) wrote2025-11-10 08:17 pm

When you stand your ground, what are you standing on?

Posted by Roger Dodger

The Cooperative National Geologic Map This site is an educational tool and introduction to the Nation's geology. The geologic layers were compiled using a standardized process, funded by the USGS National Cooperative Geologic Mapping Program. Layers for the Cooperative National Geologic Map were assembled from about 100 geologic maps of states or large regions produced by State Geological Surveys and the USGS.

The beta site was previously mentioned in 2016 in this thread about Flyover App.
MetaFilter ([syndicated profile] metafilter_feed) wrote2025-11-10 06:56 pm

Birds don't know about Brexit

Posted by rabia.elizabeth

Spain's declining red kite population gets an assist from the UK A couple decades ago, ornithologists in Spain and the UK cooperated to send some of Spain's then-plentiful red kite chicks to the British Isles in hopes that the species would recover there. The effort met with smashing success. 30 years on, Great Britain returns the favor.

Spain's red kite population has declined severely, mostly due to electrocution on power lines as well as shootings and poisonings. In an act of optimism, British and Spanish kite lovers recently cooperated to send some of the descendants of that original crop of chicks back to Spain. So far, results have been promising, but the threat from humans remains an unresolved issue. Power lines in Spain have begun to be made bird-safe, at least. The visually striking red kite, with its rusty plumage and broad white wingbands, flies deftly and sings in an unforgettable way. SEO Birdlife, a conservation society that publishes an excellent guide to the birds of Spain, notes that the red kite likes to sleep in groups during the winter and prefers groves for its cold- weather communal lodging. SEO Birdlife article on the red kite, with audio samples of song and video Acción para el Mundo Salvage, the group that runs the wildlife hospital where the British chicks spent some time before their release Article on declining migrating bird populations in Andalucia, published by the Andalucia Bird Society
Ask a Manager ([syndicated profile] askamanager_feed) wrote2025-11-10 06:59 pm

I got an abusive message from an email subscriber — should I let his employer know?

Posted by Ask a Manager

A reader writes:

I run outbound marketing for a tech startup serving founders and salespeople. We often send promotional/announcement emails from my email address to subscribers who have opted in to receive our updates.

We recently sent a very harmless and innocuous announcement message, to which I received the following reply: “Why the FUCK am I getting this email”

The message was from a personal Gmail account and included the sender’s cell phone number. A quick LinkedIn search revealed that the sender is employed at a major financial services firm as a personal wealth advisor (investment manager) for high net worth individuals.

What he doesn’t know is, I’m a client of his firm. While he is not my investment advisor, one of his colleagues is, and his unreasonable reply — in response to a message he opted in to receive — honestly makes me reconsider my business relationship with the firm. If they employ someone who casually exhibits this degree of unprofessionalism, especially when it took more time to send an abusive reply than it would have to just … delete the email and never think of it again (even deleting and unsubscribing would have taken less time!), it undermines my trust in their ability to manage my money.

So my question is, should I make someone at the firm aware of his behavior? I could let my own investment manager know, but I’m not sure what he would do about it, other than directing me to someone higher up in the organization. Blasting this guy publicly on LinkedIn isn’t really my style, but a world in which someone can be disproportionately abusive in response to a low-stakes “problem” like a marketing email is not one I want to live in, let alone support by giving them my business. I also understand the logic of letting it go, especially given that the reply came from his personal email address, but it’s really made me mad and I don’t want his conduct to go unacknowledged because acting like it’s okay when it clearly isn’t feels like a tacit endorsement. Should I let his employer know?

Nah, let it go. They won’t care.

I’d argue you shouldn’t really care either. A ton of people forget they’ve subscribed to email lists and then send rude responses when they’re annoyed to receive what they think is spam, not realizing they opted in. Is it rude and, frankly, fruitless? Yes, absolutely. Is it something his employer will care about? Probably not. Will it look extremely strange to contact them about it? Yes.

I don’t want to imply that we should accept casual rudeness as the norm. We shouldn’t! But you’re also kind of overreacting to it in this case. He thought it was spam, he was annoyed and, yes, his response was over the top, but your response to it is also pretty disproportionate.

If this guy were your investment manager, I could see caring a little more — like who is this hothead I have managing my money and how else does he behave when he thinks he’s anonymous? But you’re far enough removed from him that you should just delete his reply and not give it any additional thought. (Or at most, you could reply to say, “You received this message because you opted into our mailing list. I’ll remove you.” But nothing beyond that.)

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Ask a Manager ([syndicated profile] askamanager_feed) wrote2025-11-10 05:29 pm

my employee might be working a second job during our workday

Posted by Ask a Manager

A reader writes:

I recently took over managing a team, and have some concerns about one of my employees, John, who was hired by my predecessor. He is pretty good at what he does, but he is super slow at producing finished work. He rarely meets deadlines and if I don’t micromanage him every step of the way on a project, it won’t get done.

At first I assumed he just had too much on his plate, so I’ve taken over a decent chunk of his work and made sure that everyone else on staff keeps me in the loop when they need his help. So now I know exactly what’s on his plate and how long it should take to do it – and he takes much longer than he should on most tasks.

I’ve been trying to figure out why he is so slow, and lately I’ve started wondering if he is working on his side gig during our office hours. We work remotely so I can’t see what he is doing, but I’ve noticed he will send me work first thing in the morning and then later in the evening. I won’t hear from him for hours on end during the 9-5, but the work he sends me in the evening is something that should take an hour or so to finish, not all day.

He does have an agency that he founded and works for on the side, so my theory is that he is working on that and then scrambling to get some of his actual work done before the end of the day. How can I have this conversation with him without accusing him and how can I make sure he is actually doing his work without micromanaging him?

I answer this question over at Inc. today, where I’m revisiting letters that have been buried in the archives here from years ago (and sometimes updating/expanding my answers to them). You can read it here.

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MetaFilter ([syndicated profile] metafilter_feed) wrote2025-11-10 04:28 pm

Can man-made bungalows installed in rivers help fish?

Posted by chariot pulled by cassowaries

Recovery was on the edge for this species. Then ecologists tried something new. This spring offers a critical window to see if man-made bungalows installed in rivers can help a struggling fish species. If they work, they could provide a path forward for restoring other battling Australian freshwater fish populations.
Ask a Manager ([syndicated profile] askamanager_feed) wrote2025-11-10 03:59 pm

I’m managing an employee through a PIP — and it’s really hard

Posted by Ask a Manager

A reader writes:

For the past several years, I’ve been managing an employee whose work has oscillated between “acceptable but not great” and “does not meet expectations.” In that time, we’ve navigated all the steps HR and I could think of to help her improve (including training, shadowing other employees, more training, developing resources, discussing management and feedback styles that work for her, etc.). We’ve had weekly check-ins throughout her employment where we discuss her work, expectations, and other aspects of her role. Now, we’ve finally put her on a formal Performance Improvement Plan, which will last 60 days.

She is understandably upset and stressed, but has — for the most part — handled the news well. While I think she’s not well-suited to the role, I do generally like working with her, and I’m pretty sad that we’ve come to this point. Based on her performance thus far, I currently expect to have to terminate her employment at the end of the PIP period (though of course that could change).

I don’t want to downplay that this is, I’m sure, much more difficult for her … but so far I am finding this process really hard. While we of course discussed when her work wasn’t meeting expectations in the past, spending every check-in and tons of time in between documenting how she’s failing to meet expectations is depressing both for her and me. Watching her get increasingly stressed and upset about her situation leaves me drained, stressed for her, and concerned about the ways this will impact her life outside of work. We’re in the U.S., so I worry about loss of health care for her and her family.

I would never expect this process to be easy — it shouldn’t be! But I don’t think I was prepared for the emotional turmoil I’d feel as a manager with an employee on a PIP, and it’s starting to impact my own work performance. I spend so much time documenting, brainstorming solutions, and feeling guilty that my productivity has slowed. Do you have any advice for managing someone through the end of their employment without destroying your own mental health? How can I compartmentalize and focus on my own work when I’m not managing her efforts?

It sounds like you have done a lot to try to help her and get her work where you need it to be, but that she’s ultimately just not well-suited for the role. What’s good here is that you’ve really done your part — not just all the energy you’ve put into trying to help her improve, but also being clear with her that she’s not meeting the job requirements and what the potential consequences of that are, so that she won’t be (or at least shouldn’t be) blindsided at the end of the process and has time to look for other work. (At least I assume you have been clear about the potential consequences! If you haven’t, it’s important to spell that out so she knows.) These are all good things; they are you doing everything you can to treat her well.

The flip side of that is … you don’t need to work yourself to the bone in this situation! Yes, you need to coach and document — but you don’t need to exhaust every possible avenue. You do the coaching that’s reasonable to do in the time you have available, relative to other things that also need your attention.

Ultimately, the test of whether she can work out in this job isn’t whether she can do it with intensive support from you; it’s whether she can do it without intensive support from you. It’s okay to do less; in fact, you probably have to do less, both to find out whether she can do the job with a reasonable level of support, and to keep your own job sustainable.

The emotional side of this isn’t as easy to answer. It sucks to watch someone go through this process, especially if you can see that they’re trying hard. But maybe you can take comfort in knowing that you’re uniquely positioned to ensure that she’s treated fairly and with dignity during this process (which includes being kind but honest when it’s not working).

This may help too:

how do you deal with having to fire someone?

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MetaFilter ([syndicated profile] metafilter_feed) wrote2025-11-10 03:21 pm

"Without comment."

Posted by mhoye

Today, the US Supreme Court rejected a bid to overturn its decision legalizing same-sex marriage nationwide.

"The justices, without comment, turned away an appeal from Kim Davis, the former Kentucky court clerk who refused to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples after the high court's 2015 ruling in Obergefell v. Hodges."
MetaFilter ([syndicated profile] metafilter_feed) wrote2025-11-10 09:53 am

Free Thread

Posted by Mr. Yuck

What's your experience with temp work? I don't really care, I had to link something but I'd rather hear about your lives.
MetaFilter ([syndicated profile] metafilter_feed) wrote2025-11-10 09:12 am

"If I were you, I'd stop looking in the lake"

Posted by chavenet

Cormican kept expanding his search area. It was tedious work, lowering the towfish into the water, driving slowly, returning home at dark with nothing. He got tired of Big Green Lake. Every time he left town, he hoped not to return. Then Sheriff Podoll would call and tell him how nice the Borgwardt family was and how Cormican was their only chance for closure. And he would climb back into his truck and return to the lake that did not seem to want to give up its dead kayaker. from The Missing Kayaker [The Atlantic; ungated]
MetaFilter ([syndicated profile] metafilter_feed) wrote2025-11-10 05:45 am

A Clockwork Oligarchy

Posted by storybored

Reversing State Capture: The 15-70-15 Rule. (ungated). "Bank regulators are seldom celebrities. But Ahsan Mansur, the governor of Bangladesh's central bank, is an exception. Since he took over in August, after an autocratic prime minister, Sheikh Hasina, was overthrown by protests, his job has been to untangle the criminal mess she left behind...The pillaging of Bangladeshi savings was a brazen example of a global scourge: state capture. This is when the powers and resources of the state are hijacked for the benefit of a few. It is a broader concept than corruption, since it includes acts that are not against the law, but should be. It can involve rewriting rules to benefit insiders, stuffing institutions with placemen, channelling favours to cronies, intimidating businesses into appeasing the powerful, and gutting checks and balances. The aim may be self-enrichment, or strengthening the captor's grip on power, or both."

"When reforming, remember the "15-70-15" rule. Richard Pennington, a police reformer in New Orleans, reckoned that 15% of cops were the drivers of corruption, 70% went along with it and 15% were clean. This ratio applies at many institutions, argues Professor Stone. The best approach is to sack or sideline the filthy 15%, promote the honest staff and persuade the complicit middle that norms have changed. This can be done institution by institution, allowing measurable progress, which can generate support from voters for further reforms." The article profiles three countries' experiences with state capture: Bangladesh, Poland and South Africa. There is of course another country that is the elephant (figuratively and emblematically) in the room when discussing this issue.