Kat Consumes Media

Dec. 17th, 2025 09:46 pm
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Kat Watches Things

The Dune: Part One - Rewatch. Hopefully I'll get to the second part one day. Anyway. Still extremely watchable. Still fills me with yearning for a Paul Atreides/Duncan Idaho fic with a very specific dynamic that I haven't really found yet in the existing fics. 

The Art Detectives, Series 1 - DI Palmer works for Heritage Crime, tries to woo a museum curator and has an art forger for a father. He recruits a DC Malik to help him crack all manner of heritage related crimes. Which, because this is fiction, includes not a single case of metal theft from church roofs which is what keeps the real heritage crime unit busy. Also, they would never investigate murders no matter how many old paintings were involved in the plot. Anyway, reality aside, this was perfect comfort watching, not particularly emotionally taxing. I liked the episode in Belfast best, about Titanic memorabilia, probably because I've been there to the Titanic museum and it was nice to see the vibes. 

Star Trek: Strange New Worlds, Series 1-3 - ITV only had the first series but I abused H's Amazon account to get the next two. And enjoyed this a whole lot! And also, now I need to see Disco again. Anyway, post the events of that shit storm, Captain Pike, Spock and Number One carry on seeking new life and new civilisations. this got spoilery ) 


Kat Reads Books

Borne by Jeff VanderMeer - One of the reviews for the book called it 'brilliant and deeply strange' and I would sign that whole heartedly. It's difficult to describe the story. Is it a novel about dystopian future where environmental disaster, rampant biotechnology and unchecked capitalism have resulted in a collapse of all world order? Yes. Is it a tale of urban sci-fantasy with monsters and maybe-alien, maybe-other dimensional being. Also yes. Is this a deeply human story about what it actually means to be a person even if you're not human, and the fluidity of memory and identity and finding meaning in making connections despite it all? Definitely that. Is it body-horror about the unspeakable, visceral cost of survival in an environment where everything and everyone can and will hurt you, consume you, kill you for food, for salvage, for territory, for mindless aggression, or because that's what they were designed to do? Fuck yes. But also, it's a story about a woman who finds a strange creature and brings them home, raises them up, or tries to; a woman who remembers a different world but fights for her current one, her home, her lover, her survival. If you like strange, world building that does very little explaining and expects the reader to cope with that, dystopian struggle for survival and, somehow, a hopeful ending despite everything, this is a book for you.

Skein Island by Aliya Whiteley - Marianne receives an invite to Skein Island, a women-only retreat where her mother went many years ago and then never returned home afterwards. Once there, it's quickly apparent that the island guards a deadly secret, kept placid with the stories the women share. The book winds Greek mythology and archetypes, gender roles and relationships, and the power of stories, especially the small, mundane ones. This is an interesting story but also pretty caught up in gender essentialism given its core premise. There's a later short-story at the end that has a blink and you miss it hint about the protagonist being trans, so I got the impression the author themselves started thinking about the premise beyond the binary. 

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Books read, November

Dec. 18th, 2025 10:25 am
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Faves for this month were the two Uketsu books and An Academic Affair.

Heated rivalry, Rachel Reid (re-read)
Long game, Rachel Reid (re-read)
Good girls don’t die, Christina Henry
The Quins at Quayles, Winnifred Norling
The pink marine, Greg Cope White
Dinosaur sanctuary 7, Itaru Kinoshita
Into the raging sea, Rachel Salde
Darkly, Marissa Pessl
Bookish, Lucy Mangan
Strange pictures, Uketsu
Strange houses, Uketsu
Glorious Exploits, Ferdia Lennon
Little nothings, Julie Mayhew
An Academic Affair, Jodi McAlister
Appointment with death, Agatha Christie


Heated rivalry, Rachel Reid (re-read)
Long game, Rachel Reid (re-read)


I have not watched the TV series - yet - but there was all this publicity about it and so I re-read these two. HR is still great. LG - well. It’s okay, but it slips out of my mind pretty quickly afterwards.

Good Girls Don’t Die, Christina Henry. Three women wake up in turn in increasingly unnerving situations - the first, in a house with a family and a job that she doesn’t remember, the second in a cabin with friends where they are being stalked by something, the third forced to run through a maze of death to survive - unfortunately the first two stories are significantly more compelling than the third, and the reveal (spoiler - yet another evil techbro who doesn’t like losing fights with women on the internet) is weak and the resolution weaker. I thought this was going to do more with the storylines being different sorts of book, but no.

The Quins at Quayles, Winnifed Norling. I read Norling’s Missing from Mallingford’s when I was young, and quite liked it, and I’ve read a few others of hers. This was, however, not good. Five cousins with almost no characterisation start at a new school and investigate a mysterious house (the book is published in 1940 so you can possibly guess some of the mystery), no-one ever says anything, and I actually took a few months to read this because I kept putting it down.

The Pink Marine, Greg Cope White. Made into the Netflix series Boots, this is about a scrawny gay teenager in the late 70s, who follows his straight best friend into the Marines - once he gets past being repeatedly underweight on the medical. I failed to read the blurb on this so hadn’t realised it was pretty much just boot camp and him deciding that the Marines were the best thing ever, and so while it’s readable and if I wanted background material for a story set in that time period it would be super helpful, I didn’t get much more from it.

Dinosaur Sanctuary 7, Itaru Kinoshita. More dinos. The neglectful father/son who loves dinosaur subplot is not my favourite but I do like Suzume learning that the blind dinosaur she is assigned to is very capable on his own terms.

Into the Raging Sea: 33 Mariners, One Megastorm, and the Sinking of El Faro, Rachel Slade. Picked up from [personal profile] rachelmanija and very good in a throughly detailed and depressing way about how industry practices focused almost entirely on profit can create an environment where there is no room for tolerance of individual bad decisions. I lent this immediately to my friend who works in systems safety.

Darkly, Marisha Pessl. The mysterious Louisiana Veda created the Darklys, horrifying board games with a cult following; although she is now dead, her legacy lingers. Dia (Arcadia) is one of six teenagers offered an internship with Darkly, but when they arrive at the game factory, they discover that they have to solve the mystery of the last Darkly - not just its mysterious disappearance, but the game itself, which is now being played, and causing its solvers to disappear. This coasts on vibes but is sadly all too easy to pick holes in, not least of which is how these games actually work. They’re described as board games that millions of people spend evenings playing, but with only a handful of winners (I guess the analog would be something like Kit Williams’ Masquerade, but that’s not a board game!), and then when we actually see Valkyrie’s (the missing Darkly) game play, it’s a cross between an escape room and an interactive theatre piece, which is something else again. The characters were not compelling enough to distract me from trying to work this out, the romance is irritating, and I also kept wondering how we could possibly be on a deserted island in the middle of nowhere a thirty minute drive from London. Which is annoying, because deadly mysterious board games are a cool idea, as are treasure hunts; I should track down my copy of John Bellairs’ The Treasure of Alpheus Winterborn and re-read that instead.

Bookish: how reading shapes our lives, Lucy Mangan. Her second reading memoir (it’s not really “our”, it’s all about her - this one takes in teenage years, university, marriage, having a baby, COVID, and the death of her father. I have read a lot of the same books as Manga (although inexplicably she doesn’t do f/sf AT ALL), I like her writing, and a number of bits of this ring very true for me.

Strange Pictures, Uketsu
Strange Houses, Uketsu


Also via [personal profile] rachelmanija. Excellently creepy found horror, based around a series of pictures in the first and floor plans in the second; these (mostly) play fair with teh readers for solutions. Pictures is the stronger narrative (and written later) but I do like a floor plan. This has definitely hung around me after reading it and I may even track down hard copies.

Glorious Exploits, Ferdia Lennon. I borrowed this a few times before I finally read it, and somehow in that process I forgot most of the details of the original recommendation apart from believing it was a comedy involving potters & theatre in Ancient Greece. This is not entirely inaccurate but does omit the important fact that most of this book is about the brutal aftermath of equally brutal wars, the theatre is a production of Medea put on by a cast of starving Athenian POWs left in a quarry to rot, and it’s painfully bleak with at the most some moments of dark humour. It’s odd about women but it is good about theatre.

Little Nothings, Julie Mayhew. Liv has never had a group of friends until she meets Beth and Binnie in a new mums playgroup; they get on well until Ange joins the group. Ange, richer and apparently better at everything, pulls the group around her, and Liv struggles to keep up - will an (expensive) catered holiday in Greece bring everyone back together, or tear them apart? Everyone in this is unlikeable and there is a weird why-not-lesbians thing going on where people hassle Liv for making friends with an incredibly rich woman, and imply they’re sleeping together - and tbh that would probably make a better book.

An Academic Affair, Freya McAllister. A romance with footnotes! This alternates pov between two rival Eng Lit early career academics - Sadie (scrappy, rough background, specialises in popular fiction) and Jonah (high-pressured family with senior academic father, specialises in Jacobean drama) who have fought enthusiastically throughout undergrad and postgrad, and then while trying to exist on precarious short-term and temp work, come up against each other for a permanent Lit Studies post in Hobart. Both want it, desperately; of course only one can get it, but then the contract has this clause about partner hire… This is a solid romance as well as being very good about the difficulties of having a career in academia - both characters are union members and there’s a certain amount of satisfaction in watching management hoist by their own petard on the contract negotiations, which is not something I usually read romances for. It’s also another strongly Australian book and I presume it’s the first of another series, because there are two other obvious couples being lined up in this one. I liked it a lot.

Appointment with Death, Agatha Christie. I’m not sure if I’ve read this one before, actually. Set in/around Petra, with the death of a woman who has intimidated and warped her entire family - I did work out who but it was entertaining getting there.

Okay so more context

Dec. 17th, 2025 09:29 pm
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(Re: the previous entry.)

Dragonslayer Ornstein & Executioner Smough (also known as Oreo and S'mores, Biggie and Smalls, Pikachu and Snorlax, Rodgers and Hammerstein, and any other name the fandom can come up with) are one of the most iconic boss fights in the entire Dark Souls series.

There are much harder ones in later games (and in the DLC), but they're still legendary and still regarded as a Serious boss fight.

They're also a famous mid-game difficulty spike and cause of rage quitting. Conversely, if you can get through O&S, people often say you should have the skills to beat the rest of the base game.

The major issue is that it's a duo boss fight, with one agile speedster (Ornstein) who can zip most of the way across the room in a single move, and also throws lightning, and one heavyweight bruiser (Smough) who is slower but not that slow -- he has a charge attack to close distance fast that hits like a freight train -- and does huge amounts of damage.

So for the first phase of the fight, you have to try to keep track of where they both are simultaneously (not to mention where you are in relation to the room, so you don't back yourself into a corner and get trapped) and constantly manoeuvre to try to be able to get in a hit on one without being hit by the other.

If you kill one of them, the fight goes into a second phase where the surviving one absorbs some of their powers (so if it's Smough, he gets lightning, while if it's Ornstein he gets sized up and picks up part of Smough's moveset) and also restarts with a full and vastly increased health bar. Though there is a general consensus that the second phase is more manageable than the first phase simply because you're not having to fight two bosses at the same time.

Illustrative example of someone doing the fight:



(You can summon an NPC or other human players to try to help you, but the bosses get extra health to compensate and it's still tough. And also I have been having enormous fun trying to beat all the bosses without summons so far, and am averse to the extra complications and unpredictability of having more people -- human or NPC -- in the mix while I try to figure out a fight. Though I've also had enormous fun being a summons for other people on boss fights, so zero disrespect to people summoning*, it's an excellent game mechanic.)

As I may have mentioned once or twice, my brain has huge difficulty tracking multiple moving objects (which is why I can't drive or cycle on the road) and I have the reaction speed of a slime mould.

So yeah. I knew O&S are the big mid-game stopper and I was very aware that this could potentially be the point where I hit a wall and the game became flatly impossible for me. Or at least where I'd have to summon to get through it.

And that did not happen. I solo-ed O&S.

It took multiple sessions over multiple days before I mastered it, but that's standard for me on DS boss fights. And I had SO MUCH FUN. It's SUCH A COOL FIGHT.

I did a thing that was a real achievement for me and I am very proud, and especially given the shitshow this year has been, I'll take it.

{*Necessary disclaimer only because Dark Souls fandom has historically had a section who are toxic as fuck and would like you to know that you didn't really beat the game if you summoned or used magic or whatthefuckever else they disapprove of.}

Anybody have any explanatory links?

Dec. 18th, 2025 04:09 pm
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As we all know - or anyway, as most of us know - words are capitalized like names if they're used like names and titles.

This most commonly applies to kinship terms, of course - "I gave a present to my mom" versus "When she opened her present, Mom cried" and "I have an uncle who is a firefighter" versus "You're a firefighter, aren't you, Uncle John?"

But there's a few people in the comments asserting that they've never seen this before, they would've been marked down at school, and so on.

It does boggle my mind somewhat that they, I guess, never read fiction in which people have parents, or else don't pay much attention when they do read, but I suppose not everybody is lucky enough to have been raised by a proofreader. However, what I'm posting about is that it's surprisingly difficult to find an authoritative source on this subject online.

The MW and Cambridge dictionary entries only cover this in the briefest way, without an explanatory note. I can't find a usage note by looking elsewhere at MW. I see people asserting that the AP and Chicago styles require this - but I can't actually access that, and searches on their respective websites go nowhere.

I can find lots of casual blogs and such discussing this in detail, but understandably people who think they already know are reluctant to accept correction from random sources like that. Can't quite blame them, though they're still very wrong. Or, I mean to say, they're out of step with the norms of Standard English orthography.

Does anybody have any source that's likely to be accepted? I don't even care about telling that handful of people at this point, I'm just annoyed at my inability to find a link on my own.

It Is Time To Update Life

Dec. 17th, 2025 09:00 pm
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Me: "Okay, before I come over there, can you describe the issue?"
Office Manager: "Oh, just a computer issue. You'll figure it out when you get here."
Me: "Just a simple description will help. Is it running slower? Is it related to a particular program?"
Office Manager: "It's a computer issue."

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Well that was a trip

Dec. 17th, 2025 07:14 pm
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Well yesterday's trip turned epic in (mostly) all the wrong ways. I was halfway across the platform at Kings Cross, Passenger Assistance guy in tow, when he was flagged down by another LNER guy, which soon turned into a conflab with at least four of them. I didn't catch the full conversation, but I was pretty sure I heard "one under", which he confirmed when he came back to me - person under a train, nothing moving, and they'd been instructed not to board anyone, so back to the PA lounge for me. He was back for me in about 15 minutes, and this time we made it as far as the train and he was getting the ramp out when the instruction came through not to board anyone, so he put me aboard anyway.

That confirmed what I'd suspected from my seat reservation, I'd been upgraded to first class - and at that point I was the only person in first class, though it filled up eventually. The train was made up of two five-car Azuma units joined together and I'm not sure if the five-car Azumas actually have any wheelchair spaces in Standard Class, so it may well be an automatic upgrade to 1st if you get the right train. We were forty minutes late leaving in the end, but the crew were soon around offering drinks and a tumbler of a rather nice rioja and a mug of coffee made the delay much more palatable. Lunch followed, though the hot option was gone by the time they got to me, so I had to settled for what the Christmas menu described as a "Boxing Day box with Olivier Salad", but which I described to my sister as a posh Ploughmans without any bread - "All the flavours of Boxing Day in one box: pulled Wiltshire ham, Olivier salad, tangy cheddar, vibrant pickled red cabbage, onions and cornichons, cherry tomatoes, spinach and a touch of piccalilli." There was only about a spoonful of the Olivier Salad, which I'd not come across before, so looked up later; seems it's an alternate name for Russian Salad, though the LNER version seemed to be mostly mayo dressing plus peas. Given pretty much everything else in the box can be a part of an Olivier Salad (according to wikipedia), I guess the whole thing amounted to a deconstructed Olivier salad.

There were another couple of rounds of drinks afterwards, though I skipped the third one as we were almost at Darlington. More fool me. Five minutes outside Darlington the train pulled up, and the guard announced that we were delayed because of trespassers on the line north of Darlington, with the station already full of earlier trains. So we sat, and waited, and waited, and eventually found out that the 'trespasser' was a vulnerable person on the 75ft tall viaduct just outside Durham station, with the police trying to talk them down. Staff came around with another round of drinks, and we eventually moved off after a delay of about an hour and twenty minutes, making us an hour and fifty five minutes late into Darlington. So instead of reaching my sister's at 16:30 it was more like 18:30, making for an eight and a half hour journey.

And then I slept for twelve hours.

On the positive side, I should get a refund for at least 50% of the ticket price, possibly all of it (the website is a bit unclear).  

 

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What I read

Finished Audrey Lane Stirs the Pot - teensy pedantic note that a girl who was a teenage WW2 evacuee was not going to have been called Doris after Doris Day.

I read a couple more nostalgic (I literally read these when I was still at school) Elswyth Thanes (also the ebooks are v cheap), This Was Tomorrow (1951) and Homing (1957), and apart from a couple of fortunately brief scenes in Williamsburg (I get the impression is being done up as Heritage Site with Rockefeller dough?) set in England/Europe just before and at beginning of WW2. Apart from the 2 idealistic Oxford Groupers (it's not actually named but it sounds very like) who want to shed love and light on the Nazis, nobody is for appeasement. So unlike e.g. Lanny Budd's first wife and her second (Brit aristo) husband.... There is also weird reincarnation theme going on.

Latest Literary Review.

Some while ago I was looking for my copy of The Goblin Emperor and it was not in any of the places I thought it plausibly might be and then I spotted it while dusting the bookshelves in a non-intuitive spot and have been re-reading that. Have also read the online short story Min Zemerin's Plan (The Cemeteries of Amalo, #1.5) (2022), which I hadn't come across before, and re-read The Orb of Cairado (The Chronicles of Osreth, #1.1) (2025). Does anyone know how I can get access to Lora Selezh (The Cemeteries of Amalo, #0.5), which was apparently a freebie for preorders of the Tor edition of Witness for the Dead???

On the go

Have started Dickon Edwards, Diary at the Centre of the Earth: Vol. 1 (1997-2007) (2025) - possibly a dipper-inner rather than a read straight through, though sometimes diaries that one thinks this about grab one like the Ancient Mariner, I'm looking at you Mr Isherwood.

Up Next

As may seem predictable, I am on to a re-read of Katherine Addison's Cemeteries of Amalo trilogy.

I should probably also be turning my attention to Dorothy Richardson, Pointed Roofs, for the Pilgrimage online book group discussion in early Jan.

PIN-Headed, Part 34

Dec. 17th, 2025 06:45 pm
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Caller: "I think my grandson has been making withdrawals from my account."
Me: "I can see several cash withdrawals from ATMs over the last few days."
Caller: "Yes, it's him. The first one is legitimate; I gave him my card and asked him to withdraw some cash for me, but he hasn't been back since then."
Me: "Ma'am, for him to have done that, he would need to know your PIN. Did you tell him your PIN?"

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Submit programming for VidUKon 2026!

Dec. 17th, 2025 06:31 pm
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Programming suggestions for VidUKon 2026 are now open! We will be accepting submissions until Monday January 19 2026 at the end of the day everywhere.

Please submit your content suggestions, whether for shows, panels, or something else, in this google form. Most fields are not mandatory, so if you only have a vid show idea but not a panel or vice versa, that’s fine. Multiple ideas, if you have them, are welcome, but please submit them separately, just to make our lives a bit easier.

If you have an idea for something new that’s not quite a vidshow or panel, we’d love to hear that too.

As ever, we welcome programming ideas from first-time VJs and panellists as well as from veterans - if you’d like to give it a try but you’re not sure where to start, please get in touch! We’re happy to chat it through with you. You’re also very welcome to VJ as a pair or a group.

As the con has grown, so has the number of programming submissions. In the likely event that we have too many programme items to choose from, we will emphasise items that form a coherent and complementary programme, as well as trying to give new VJs and panellists a chance to shine. Last year we had to turn down many excellent suggestions, so if you're still keen on your submission from last year please feel free to resubmit, or submit a new one if you prefer.

Part of the reason we have had to turn down so many great programming submissions is because our standing programming, e.g. Vidder's Choice, Premieres, etc, now run much longer and take up more of the con time than they used to. For this reason, we have decided not to run one of our usual standing vidshows, Festivids, this year. This will free up time for one more curated vidshow or panel than we were able to do last year.

We will endeavour to let submitters know whether their item has been selected as soon as possible after the deadline, to allow plenty of time to prepare.

online life for 2026

Dec. 17th, 2025 11:09 am
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I decided to tweak how I engage with online life for 2026, and have been busy the last couple weeks trying to get it ready so I can test it before the new year actually starts.

So:
1. Switch back to posting on DW as my main journal (external blog will close)
2. Move website from pixietails.club to tozka.fyi (partly to save money on the domain renewal cost lol)
2b. Website will be more for evergreen content and not so much tracking content. So pages like a list of what I read this year will be deleted from public and kept private instead, but all my tutorials and fanlistings will still be there.
3. Self-host RSS feed reader (done), link collector (done)
4. Set up Obsidian as my personal hub (done). This'll be where I keep my tracking stuff, personal data, whatever.

So basically be a little more private with my info, be more proactive with keeping my own data, and settle back in to the communities I want to engage with.

I liked having my own little blog domain but it felt very exposed, which made me not want to post. Dreamwidth is more cozy! Even if I post in public here, I don't feel like the eyes of the entire internet are on me. Also tbh when I posted from my blog first it didn't give me an incentive to come over here and actually read my friends page, so I've gotten very behind on my correspondence.

Further changes: I want to get away from AI intrusions a bit more, so I've installed Linux on my main computer (Manjaro) and deleted Windows entirely.

And while I've stopped using most social media besides Mastodon, I still visit Facebook a lot for the groups. I'm going to make it a priority to join and engage in forums instead.

Should We Tell Her?

Dec. 17th, 2025 06:00 pm
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My manager is trans, MTF, and presents very feminine. A customer and her teenage daughter are looking at birth control items.
Customer: "I'm not comfortable discussing these with you. We need to get someone else."
The customer curtly calls over my manager.
Customer: "You! Which of these is best?"

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Movies: the nocturnal edition, I guess!

Silent Night Deadly Night (2025). A nice young man who sometimes puts on a Santa suit and murders naughty people as directed by the voice in his head meets a nice young woman who sometimes really loses her temper.

This was a delight. I had the BEST time. It's a remake of a 1980s slasher I haven't seen, but the premise of that one sounds like it's played straight as a "guy in a santa suit goes on a psychotic killing spree" kind of thing, and this one is a lot more complicated/enjoyably weird in its execution. The lore of this movie is absolutely bananas, just total nonsense, but is never overexplained, which it seems like is where so many of these kinds of bonkers movies fall down. The script is surprisingly smart overall, I felt, with a lot of care and affection for its characters. It doesn't hurt that I adore Ruby Modine, who previously had smaller parts in Happy Death Day (the roommate) and Satanic Panic (the daughter). And the ending is *chef's kiss*. I would watch the hell out of a sequel that follows what happens next.

On a personal note, as someone who loves Christmastime but has had less opportunity/excuse to indulge in it as I've gotten older, I really enjoyed the over the top Christmas theming of this.

It does have a couple of awkward lines about gender(tm), which maybe are trying to do a thing, but do not succeed in my opinion. There's also an incident with a white supremecist which would have felt more successful if we'd seen, like, a single non-white person by that point in the movie. The movie also does not look great; it's kind of all sludge. Oh well, we can't have everything.

I think this movie is already almost out of theaters. If it sounds fun to you at all, I would absolutely recommend chasing it down for some Christmas-flavored horror cheese.

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100 Nights of Hero (2025). In a misogynistic dystopia, a young married woman (Maika Monroe) whose inattentive husband is away on business must cope with a would-be suitor (Nicholas Galitzine) with the help of her maid and best friend (Emma Corrin).

I checked this out because the descriptions I saw were sending gay signals, and indeed, this is very gay! Monroe and Corrin's respectively repressed and hidden gay longing is great. It also, unlike the movie above, is beautiful and stylish, even though they were clearly working with a fairly small budget. The aesthetics are top-notch. And Galitzine (of Red, White, and Royal Blue, among other things) does a great job playing a hot himbo whose sense of menace is undercut by how dumb he is.

Unfortunately, the actual story a) is not my kind of thing and b) IMO sucks pretty hard on its own merits. If I had realized quite how much of a satirical fable it was, I would not have gone to see it. This takes place in a universe where women are killed for such sins as literacy, extramarital sex, and not getting pregnant within nine months or so of getting married. This last one is the key for our sad wife Cherry, whose husband and the villain of the piece simply declines to have sex with her, even when the local Puritan-flavored but fictionally religious order says she'll be executed if she doesn't hurry up and get pregnant.

I do get that we're trying to critique men's control of women's bodies, but like... this is not a scenario that has widespread analogue in the real world. Men refusing to have sex with women, even when the women's lives are at stake, is not a thing! RL misogyny is bad enough, you don't have to make shit up! The fact that it's suggested (but not confirmed) that the husband is either gay or ace makes it worse, as he's the only possibly queer man in the movie, and it makes it much much much worse that he's also played by the only actor of Middle Eastern descent that I noticed. In fact I think he's also the only character of color still alive at the end of the movie; all the various women of color have died. (Including Charli XCX's character, who along with her two sisters is executed for knowing how to read.)

This movie makes the Barbie movie look subtle. I would say I don't know who it's for, but apparently it's for the other five or so people on bluesky who've seen it, all of whom gave it gushing reviews. IDK man.
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Today I mostly Power Automated. Or attempted to. I had to call in the expert several times, and at least one of them he was like "yeah I don't know why it's not working either", which was at least validating. My first flow is now sending emails, although I still need to tweak it a bit.

Also: honestly what sort of bullshit is it that you can't get Microsoft Forms to send an email to the person who filled out the form with their details in! That's been, like, basic form functionality for at least fifteen years, and it's all very well saying "oh well you can do it with Power Automate", but that is much more complicated than ticking a "send submissions to user" box and requires access to a whole separate system plus someone to set up all the permissions for you to use whatever Outlook mailbox, etc etc etc...

Anyway. I have three? four? forms that my boss wants me to have up and running before Christmas. Now I've got all the accesses and permissions configured that should hopefully be possible, which is good because I did promise...

On the home front, I have now ordered all the remaining Christmas presents I can do before Christmas Day itself (why do so few places allow you to buy gift-cards to ship on a particular date!), wrapped all the physical things I already have, sorted out the last grocery delivery before Christmas so I won't accidentally starve, and checked in with my siblings to discover that other people have been working on the stocking presents for my parents, and what isn't bought is at least planned.

I built a beautiful tracking spreadsheet that shows what each parent is getting, calculates how much each of us has spent, and checks that against the notional budget for hopefully easier working out who owes what to whom once we're done. And so far no one has got super mad at me for being "bossy" or declared refusal to participate, which is unfortunately what tends to happens. I'm trying to back off now while we're still OK!

Now off to choir!

The price of postage

Dec. 17th, 2025 12:13 pm
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When I order things from Japan and Korea, my goal for managing postage costs is to have the postage cost less than the item, which I'm usually able to manage. Recently one of my friends sent me a package from within the US, for which the postage cost 3x the cost of the item!

A Different Kind Of Pill Popping

Dec. 17th, 2025 05:00 pm
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Me: "What IS that sound?!"
Coworker: "I don't know. I can't see anything from where I'm sitting."
I go to investigate. I find the source of the sound in the staff office, where my boss is popping empty bubbles from pill cards we use to distribute medication to our residents.

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These are probably going to be short and sweet, given I read them in late August through September. I'll hopefully catch up to where I am now by the time next term starts, and I go back to only reading stuff for school. Expect a bunch of books about gender, followed by all the romance novels I read on my off time, lol.


Sunrise on the Reaping by Suzanne Collins, narrated by Jefferson White
I had only the vaguest memories of the account of Haymitch's games from Catching Fire, or anything else from Catching Fire, for that matter. I never did read the other prequel. If Haymitch is one of your favourite characters, and you just want backstory on all the olds who show up later in the original series, this is solid fun. Collins did a good job of thinking through where everyone came from, and how they got like they are when Katniss meets them. Effee showing up is especially fun. We also get confirmation of several queer characters (which I assume she wasn't allowed to do in 2008), and an interesting note about the Capital banning generative A.I..

I enjoyed all the themes of the amount of groundwork needed to put into a revolution, and how the lives of the people in this story eventually led to the events of the first books. Especially how the characters themselves feel like they've failed and wasted everything, but the reader can tell how it's more a process of (horribly) figuring out what works and what doesn't.

At the same time, it didn't feel like a story of only moving pieces into place for the "real story" that will start later. It certainly doesn't read as a stand alone novel, but it does stand up as being about these characters in this moment. Haymitch is such a sweet kid when we first meet him, and is a bit more of a dynamic lead than Katniss (i.e., he actually likes people and wants to talk to them), and given the pile of characters we meet for the first time (because these games have twice the number of tributes), each of the new people get enough development for the reader to become least somewhat invested in what happens to them (spoiler alert: it's the Hunger Games, so...).

I always found the games themselves the least interesting part of the earlier books, which is largely true here as well, but the story still moves along pretty fast. They probably would've been more interesting if I remembered what the story was supposed to be, as Collins puts a lot into the contrasts and surprises. The post-games section did draaaaaaaaaaaaag though. Especially the recap of the games we'd just read about, and the part that was set up as this huge poetic tragedy. I think if you're like... 14, you'd be weeping through the end, but I found it overdone, and thought her editor should've made her stop.

Still, I'm happy to have read it.


The Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins
I hadn't read these in fifteen years, so I thought I'd swing back through to remember what we were supposed to know about all the characters we met in the prequel. Enjoyed it. Games still dragged.

Catching Fire by Suzanne Collins
So most of the characters from Haymitch's book actually show up here, it turns out. So I read this one. Enjoyed this too, though found the games section dragged a bit. The love triangle continues obnoxious, and I did myself the favour of not reading Mockingjay again.


On Tyranny: Twenty Lessons from the Twentieth Century by Timothy Snyder
I've been hearing bits of this quoted since it came out, and it's quite good. I think the target is more people involved in public life, but it was still good to listen to, these being the times that were given to us. I know it's his area, but I wish there had been more examples from autocracies other than 1930s Germany, for the sake of variety, if nothing else (there were a handful of comparisons from the Soviet bloc, but it was very Nazi centric).

I think it's on YouTube for free, if anyone wants to listen. I'll probably go back to it later, so that I take more on board.


Rainbow heart sticker Transforming: The Bible and the Lives of Transgender Christians by Austen Hartke
Solid primer if you're interested in the a gender-diverse approach to Christian theology. Hartke talks to a variety of other trans and non-binary Christians, especially those involved in ministry, about their relationship with God and the Bible. Each chapter focuses on a few lines of scripture, which are largely clobber verses, and discusses how they can be seen as trans affirming. It's really beautifully expressed, and thoughtfully takes on some difficult parts of the Bible. Hartke does talk about how frustrating it is to feel like he has to spend so much time justifying himself and talking about the clobber verses, when he just wants to talk about religious gender euphoria. He's since put out a second edition, which might refine that approach, but I haven't looked at that yet. I really appreciated this edition is an intro, however, and helped me put together a church service for Trans Day of Remembrance.

In which no man is an island

Dec. 17th, 2025 05:29 pm
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- Polls: I've probably got time to post one more poll before my dw paid time runs out, so what should I ask? :D

- Reading: 120 books to 17 Dec 2025.

117. Emily Wilde's Compendium of Lost Tales, by Heather Fawcett, 2025, fantasy romance novel, 5/5

I found the first book of this trilogy delightful (although I'm not a fan of dazed [or fainting] heroines tbh), thought the middle book meandered and repeated a tad too much, but this third book was a very good conclusion to the series (so far - although I hope Fawcett continues to grow creatively rather than repeating herself because I do think she has the imagination and skills to branch out further).

I'm sure nobody reading this hasn't heard of Emily Wilde but, just in case, the novels are secondary world fantasy / romantasy rooted in western European folk and fairy tales but with a Strange and Norrell style fake-academia framing (fake-ademia?).

pg22: If Wendell's stepmother has us slain before I have a chance to contribute to the scholarly debate, I will be very disappointed.

120. Good Days, An A-Z of Hope and Happiness, by Michael Rosen, 2025, non-fiction (self-help, philosophy, literature, autobiography, and whatever else he decides to get into).

Rosen is a National Treasure, obviously. I've just begun this but he quotes John Donne in the first chapter, which has already been in my mind recently for obvious reasons:

No man is an island, entire of itself; every man
is a piece of the continent, a part of the main.
If a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe
is the less, as well as if a promontory were, as
well as if a manor of thy friend’s or of thine
own were. Any man’s death diminishes me,
because I am involved in mankind;
and therefore never send to know for whom
the bell tolls; it tolls for thee.

Genie, Make a Wish

Dec. 17th, 2025 05:57 pm
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Netflix's k-drama Genie, Make a Wish was so much fun! A psychopath invokes a Genie that aims to corrupt humanity.

Trust k-drama to make me ship m/f! <3 These two are adorable together, and Kim Woo-bin (5-8 in Black Knight) is as hot as usual. *fans self*

There's also a canon lesbian character, but she gets a storyline à la When Marnie Was There. iykyk

inherited IRA, part I don't even know

Dec. 17th, 2025 11:37 am
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I just made another call to Fidelity (investment company) about the inherited IRA. They are going to generate a "Letter of Acceptance" form and send it to BNY, and then (I hope) we will have the money out of my mother's name before the end of the year, which will please my brother as executor of the estate.

The bit where the advisor told me to search for something on the website, and that led to an irrelevant form, was not encouraging--I think he overheard me saying to [personal profile] cattitude that I'm starting to understand why people hide their money under mattresses.

Jonathan said this should take 1-2 business days at the BNY end, and that he'll let me know when the transfer has gone through.

I am not going to spend all my money on chocolate, probably not even all the money currently in my wallet, but it's tempting.
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