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Paying an existing employee $6k more per month is absolutely unheard of for admin. But spending the same amount to hire a new, more expensive candidate for the position (not to mention going through the tedium of the hiring process, training new employees, and figuring out their unknown dynamic), now that's something admin folks think is the simpler option. 

Anyone who's spent longer than 10 seconds in the workforce knows that hiring a new employee is going to cost much more than keeping a tenured staff member, especially when they're an underpaid, overqualified science teacher making $28,000 a year…

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Dec. 19th, 2025 10:19 am
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I'm partway through the 10Dance movie. I'm enjoying Sugiki and Suzuki's chemistry (and like that they kiss each other onscreen - I really enjoyed the subway car sequence). I also ship their female dance partners together. I haven't read the manga, but I gather it's ongoing.

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I'm looking forward to (and am a bit anxious about) ClaireBell's finale tomorrow. I'm hoping it sticks the landing (and is a happy ending for Bell and Claire).
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Posted by Lorenzo Marquez

Yesterday, a yuletide seductress! Today, a jingle-jangle princess. Because even with a list of sad dresses and sexy dresses and unsettling or bloody dresses, sometimes, you’ve just got to return to the jingle-jangle. In other words, we wanted this calendar to be full of surprising or unexpected choices, but a couple of them are just here to give you a jolt of that classic Christmas aesthetic. And who could embody that more than Cindy Lou Who?

Come on, that’s adorable. We especially love the Crocs, which are the most notable and important part of the costume, in our opinion. To be fair, there’s a LOT going on with this costume and you really should take the whole look in to appreciate costume designer Rita Ryack’s work.

 

 

 

Played by Taylor Momsen in director Ron Howard’s How The Grinch Stole Christmas, the great thing about her costume is that it’s loaded with Christmas whimsy but manages to almost completely avoid the Victoriana that tends to define the classic Christmas aesthetic. She may be a Who from Whoville, but the look is strictly 21st Century American. It owes more to child pageants and drag queens than it does to Dickens. We don’t think we’re going out on a limb to suggest that in the early aughts, you could have sourced a very good approximation of the basics of this look, from the tights to the pink mittens, just by shopping at Target. Of course the insane hair, the cup of cocoa and the plate of cookies on her skirt are what tip it over into fantasy. As we noted with Martha May Whovier’s appearance on this list, everyone in Whoville wears literal representations of their own station or desires on their clothing. Look at how she and her parents are dressed in the same tablecloth gingham, as if it were a family tartan. It’s not enough for Cindy Lou Who to be in the most Christmassy outfit any little fashion-minded girl could hope for, she has to be decked in the accoutrements of the holiday, from the perspective of a child. Christmas is about sweets.

Next up: A righteously angry Christmas bitch!

 

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Dec. 19th, 2025 02:00 pm
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Don't sweat it, bakers; this week is going to be easy as pie. All you've gotta do is load up on super simple holiday designs!

 

You know, like Christmas trees:

 

and candy canes:

 

Or Christmas trees:

(I see the side silhouette of Ben Franklin. You?)

 

And strands of lights:

 

[rubbing temples] Or Christmas trees:

 

And stockings:

 

Or... Christmas trees?

 

Ooh, hey, or presents! Right? Can't get easier than a square with a bow on it!

Never mind.

 

[gritting teeth] Or Christmas trees:

 

Or candles:

 

Or... OH WOULD YOU JUST DRAW A GREEN TRIANGLE AND BE DONE WITH IT?

Thank you.

Next week: SPACING.

 

Thanks to Erin M., Wildkatt, Jason D., Christy G., Anne H., Anne K., Emma G., Jillian H., Christine, Maureen W., and Janet P., for making like these trees, and confusing the heck out of all of us.

******

P.S. You seem stressed. Take two of these and don't call me in the morning:

Squishy Stress Voodoo Doll

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And from my other blog, Epbot:

So much estrangement

Dec. 19th, 2025 09:23 am
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1. Dear Eric: I (64) have a sibling from whom I distance myself, but he (77) keeps poking the bear. We have never been close, and I have no desire to tolerate his insults.

He always had digs, nasty comments, insults. I would walk away and avoid him until he left. As years went by, I avoided him, but our mom would always insist on a family dinner. Now he was good at saving face, no comments when mom or other family members were around but the moment we were stuck in the same room, insults flew.

I was a constant support for my mom until she passed. I figured I was done with him, too. Well now he’s trying to reach out to me. I have responded with “not gonna happen” and I wrote out all the grievances with details. Now he's been whining to my other brother (70) that I'm mean to him and does not understand why I hate him. Brother #2 had no idea this was happening in my life. I explained to #2 and gave a few excerpts, ones that really hurt. How can I get past this?

– No Longer Insulted


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2. Dear Eric: Twenty years ago, my husband’s brother and his wife let us know they were going no contact with us. They said it was permanent. When we asked the reasons, we heard we are insensitive and had hurt their feelings beyond repair.

They stopped contact between us and their 3-year-old son and their baby at that time. They said contact with us would damage their children. Attempts to apologize to them for offenses we barely understand didn’t work.

Five years ago, at a family wedding, my brother-in-law spoke with my husband but snubbed me to my face. He wouldn’t even say hello. Now another family wedding is scheduled next year. I have developed close relationships with others in the extended family but dread dealing with these relatives again. I’m thinking of simply saying hello if I see them and letting it go at that. Any advice will be taken to heart, I am struggling and it’s a year away.

– Contact with No Contact


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3. Dear Eric: My son is turning 40 on December 22. My husband and I are at a quandary as to how to celebrate him.

There have been issues between my husband and him over things from his childhood. We did a special trip for his older brother when he turned 40 and would like to do something special for this son's 40th as well.

Our daughter-in-law has made special plans for him and we are not included. I understand that, but I need some ideas as to how to celebrate this extra special year without rocking the boat.

I love my son with all my heart, as I do all my children, and want his 40th birthday to be memorable in a positive way. Any suggestions?

– Mom Who Wants to Celebrate


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4. Dear Eric: I've just turned 40 this past year. The last 15 years I was in a horrible drug addiction. I lied and hurt and did terrible things to a lot of people, especially my family.

About eight years ago they officially disowned me. Understandable.

I've cleaned up and got my act together six years ago. At first, I tried to force my way back into their lives, which all refuted. I lashed out, said horrible things and stopped trying to be in their lives. My mom will stop by on my birthday for 10 minutes or so and drop a card off at Christmas. As for my two older brothers and my father, it’s radio silence.

I guess what I'm asking is, what do I do to fix this and fast, as I said I've turned 40 this year, my parents are both 70. Time is running out, and I couldn't imagine living my life without some kind of acceptance from my father. Or knowing he did or does love me.

My heart breaks at the thought, but this is a real pickle. How can I fix a problem when the ones I need to fix it with won't talk to me? Do I just keep ignoring their existence and put on this façade that I don’t care to my wife and 4-year-old son? What picture am I painting to my son, as he's been guilty by association you could say as he has never spent time with his grandparents or uncles or even my nieces and nephews?

– Discombobulated


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5. Dear Annie: Almost 15 years ago, my older sister removed me from her life after a series of messy arguments. At the time, she just stopped taking my calls and waited for me to leave family functions before going. She told our three siblings and mother that she didn't want me in her life. She likely gave them reasons but never allowed anyone to tell me.

When she ghosted me, I was heartbroken. I bugged everyone for years, asking how she was, crying about how much I missed her. I made many attempts to reconnect that were met with silence or warnings from family that she was still angry at me, but no one could ever say for what.

A few times, she asked our oldest sister to bring my kids for her to see them without me or my husband. My husband refused because he has never met her. I agreed with him.

Recently, I came to the conclusion that my sister removing me from her life was a blessing. She was toxic, and our relationship is a long history of cruelty on her part and a lack of boundaries mixed with codependency on mine. I told our oldest sister just that.

Mere days after that conversation with my oldest sister, my estranged sister messaged my teenage children on social media. She told them she was their aunt and that just because she and I don't get along doesn't mean she shouldn't have a relationship with them.

I responded by telling her she made the choice 15 years ago that we aren't family, that it was a blessing and she needs to leave my kids alone. Then I blocked her on their accounts.

She responded by sending my husband -- who she's never met or spoken to -- a message for me and then blocking him. Her argument was that I had played the victim for 15 years, that I was hateful and didn't support her. She said that I was using my kids as leverage. She called me toxic and stated that she was disappointed I didn't make any efforts to know her kids. She also stated repeatedly that I had been talking badly about her to everyone during the last 15 years.

I am very confused at this point. I don't know what she's been told for 15 years about what I've said because no one has told me anything. If I am toxic, why would she want me to have a relationship with her kids?

I believe I'm doing the right thing by keeping my teenagers away from her because I know how she treated me throughout our childhood and young adult years. She is not a safe person.

My siblings, their spouses and kids all seem to love her and have great relationships with her. It feels like most of the time, though, that if I don't reach out to them, I don't hear from them at all.

I'm now questioning if I should remove my three siblings from my life, too, as it sounds like they have been telling her I'm saying things. They've also been completely complacent in her alienation of me. -- Confused in Kansas


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Posted by Mariel Ruvinsky

It's a cold winter's day, we should be getting ready for work, but goodness, it is hard to get out of bed right now. Our blankets are too warm, our pillows too fluffy, even our cats are still cuddled up with us, not ready to face the cold, not even when breakfast is on the line. Getting out of bed right now is asking or too much. But we have to. And for that, we need to make sure that we are warm on the inside enough to face the cold on the outside. And that is what we have funny cat memes for. 

There is nothing better than scrolling through and snorting at a bunch of hissterical cat memes in the morning, we think that everyone knows that by now. But it in the winter, it is especially important. In the winter, when it's so cold outside, starting the day by laughing at a bunch of silly cat memes means starting the day with a smile. By the end of this collection, it will be ever so slightly easier to get out and face the cold. Because you will be warm on the inside. 

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Dec. 19th, 2025 02:30 pm
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Posted by Lorenzo Marquez

Breezeo Restaurant – Chonburi, Thailand

Yes. There it is. Pardon our language, but it’s so fucking FRIDAY. We have a marathon of cooking, cleaning, and last-minute home repairs before Lorenzo’s family starts arriving on Monday. We will almost certainly spend that time bickering, as all couple must during the week of Christmas. Still! The cookies are baked, the bar is stocked, and we’re ready to jingle some jangle! In the mean time, we still have a few things to distract you from your own holiday plans. Settle in.

 

The Man Caught Between Sydney Sweeney and Amanda Seyfried
Meet Brandan Sklenar, the 35-year-old rising star of Paul Feig’s twisty new thriller, ‘The Housemaid.’

Here’s just a sampling of the many topics Brandon Sklenar refuses to talk about: the narrative arcs of his new movie, his favorite scenes, the toughest scenes, his character’s transformation, the ending. Especially the ending.
Sklenar stars in The Housemaid, Paul Feig’s psychological thriller about a seemingly perfect married couple (Sklenar and Amanda Seyfried) whose lurid secrets bubble up after their maid (played by some blue jeans model named Sydney Sweeney) moves in. It’s based on Freida McFadden’s 2022 novel — a runaway best-seller — but the filmmakers want its many plot twists locked down as long as possible.

 

The 9 Best Rated Foreign Language Thrillers To Watch On Netflix Now
Nine edge-of-your-seat thrillers from around the world.
Sometimes it can feel like you’ve watched every single one of the best thrillers on Netflix. You’re scrolling away and seeing the same thrillers time and again. But flick over to a new international film menu and you’ll find a whole host of delights including scores of Netflix foreign language thrillers from around the world.
We know it can be hard enough to decide what’s worth your precious time when you recognise the stars in the posters and trailers, so when it comes to finding the best foreign language films on the platform, you might be looking for some guidance. Which is where we come in. We’ve scoured reviews sites like Rotten Tomatoes, appraised worldwide film awards and pulled out some fan favourites to bring you the best nine foreign language thrillers on Netflix.
Now it’s just up to you to decide whether you’re doing internationally themed snacks, or sticking with the popcorn.

 

These are the best (and worst) Christmas songs of all time
Don’t fight us on this.

Just about everyone has an opinion on the best — and especially the worst — Christmas songs.
They’re a classic love-hate affair, and few things get people more riled up. There are the ultimate classics, the gloriously cheesy pop tracks, and those unavoidable ’80s hits that rear their (ugly?) heads every. single. year. Pop stars keep releasing festive music too — some surprisingly great, others… less so.

 

How to style sequin trousers for every occasion this winter
Sequin trousers can be worn all day, with the right styling.

Sequin trousers scream Christmas, but knowing how to style sequin trousers can seem a bit daunting – especially if you’re a minimalist. I’d argue that they can be seamlessly included in your minimal, capsule wardrobe with a few smart styling tips.
I personally love sequins so much that I own over 15 items of bedazzled clothing, ranging from sequin dresses to mini skirts and trousers. I’ve been known to wear a pair of silver trousers for breakfast – so hear me out when I say you can style them up or down, for any occasion.

 

Where was The Salt Path filmed? Filming locations and coastal paths, revealed
Stunning south west spots.

If you’ve watched The Salt Path and found yourself immediately searching, ‘where was The Salt Path filmed?’, then you’re not alone. We did the exact same thing.
The 2024 movie may be about two fascinating people, but there is a third character that is just as important: the blustery, rugged, awesome south west coastline.
Based on memoir of Ray Winn, The Salt Path follows Ray and her husband Moth. After Moth was diagnosed with a rare brain condition, he and Ray went bankrupt and lost their home. Then, they made the brave, unexpected decided to walk the 630 miles along the South West Coast Path from Minehead in Somerset, along the coast in Cornwall, all the way to Poole in Dorset.

 

4 party makeup looks you’ll actually want to recreate, according to Emily Wood
Bold lip lines, electric blue lids and OTT shimmer – face decorator Emily Wood’s party looks are not for the clean girls.

To the thousands watching Emily Wood on social media, her devil-may-care attitude encourages you to rip up the makeup rulebook. While creating four easy party makeup looks on herself at Glamour’s holiday shoot, she excitedly flits from one subject to another, leaving sentences to fizzle out before finishing them like a struck match that won’t light properly.
But that’s Emily Wood down to a T: a whirlwind of creative energy. Allergic to the formulaic clean girl, her approach to makeup is refreshingly unorthodox. She delights in the perfectly imperfect, famously scribbling lip liner as eyeshadow and blush while on the Tube, on buses and even walking through a park.

 

How to apply tinted moisturiser, according to a pro makeup artist
That glow, though.

From avoiding uneven coverage to midday shine, learning how to apply tinted moisturiser properly is key to achieving a fresh, natural-looking base. The hybrid complexion product is known for giving glowy, light to medium coverage while also delivering major skin care benefits (you’ll often see ingredients such as hyaluronic acid, peptides, and niacinamide listed on the bottle). But how do you apply tinted moisturiser for the best makeup day possible?

 

9 best Christmas perfumes that smell like heaven
Trading frankincense and myrrh for vanilla and oud.

When you think about it, Christmas perfumes ought to get more airtime than they do. Wedding day perfumes, date-night perfumes and even hot-girl party scents get the reverence they’re rightly due, but Christmas fragrances? Mmmm. Not so much. But, given we know perfume is so deeply tied to nostalgia… and given Christmas is one of the most social and sentimental times of the year, it sort of feels like a missed opportunity to build a signature seasonal perfume.

 

How to use boob tape, our editors’ secret style weapon
No nip slips on our watch.

Wondering how to use boob tape? You’re not alone. With the festive season upon us, thoughts are turning towards mulled wine, minced pies, and, of course, party outfits. Sequinned, velveted, embroidered, shimmering — the fashion at this time of year takes a real turn into high camp, with a ‘more is more’ approach adopted by all.
And even though the weather outside might be frightful, fashion always seems to take on a sexier (read: skimpier) vibe at this time of year — hemlines get shorter, necklines scoop lower, and designs like backless dresses become more popular in shops. However, with that comes an age-old dilemma: What to do with our boobs?

 

5 Chic Ways to Wear Red for Winter—from Everyday Casual to Festive Party Vibes
The bold shade isn’t as tricky to style as you might think

Red has been having a fashion moment for some time now. Case in point? Its repeat appearances across the Autumn/Winter 2025 runways at Chanel, Balmain, Acne Studios, Valentino, Courrèges and more. And yet, despite its catwalk credentials, it remains one of the most divisive colours in our wardrobes.
For some, red feels too bold and bright. Others simply aren’t sure what to wear it with. And then there are those—myself included—who are bored of the same old formulas, where red means a cranberry knit, blue jeans and very little imagination beyond that. So I went in search of red outfits that feel genuinely exciting again.

 

The Princess Of Wales Chooses One Of 2025’s Breakout Fashion Trends For Christmas Portrait
The Prince and Princess of Wales have shared their annual festive message. On December 18, the couple’s official Instagram account shared a photo of Prince William and Catherine, Princess of Wales, along with their three children Prince George, Princess Charlotte and Prince Louis. The family photo was captioned ‘Wishing everyone a very Happy Christmas.’
The image of the family was photographed in April earlier this year by Josh Sinner and sees the family smiling broadly, relaxed in each other’s company while sat amongst a field of daffodils.

 

Every Item You Need To Build A Winter Capsule Wardrobe In 2026
ELLE’s curated edit of 2026’s sartorial necessities.

Building the ultimate winter capsule wardrobe is no small feat. Editing your clothing and accessories into a considered collection that effortlessly mixes and matches, while spanning everything from workdays to weekends, dinners to long walks, is a challenge even for the most seasoned wardrobe minimalists. Winter, of course, adds another layer of complexity (quite literally), where warmth, practicality and smart layering are non-negotiable.
A great winter capsule is anchored by versatile silhouettes, high-quality fabrics and a cohesive colour palette that allows every piece to work harder. Think wide-leg jeans that pair just as easily with a chunky knit as a smart wool coat, weather-proof boots that look great with tailored trousers and winter skirts. Add in sumptuous knits and well-considered accessories (the kind that actually keep you warm) and the foundation of your winter wardrobe is set.

 

23 Chic Silver Nails Ideas to Wear All Winter
The statement neutral.

What makes a great winter manicure? Cool tones, frosty finishes, trendy designs…essentially, everything you’ll find when searching for silver nails ideas.
Silver is a longstanding cool-girl winter nail color. It feels festive enough for the holidays—and especially appropriate for New Year’s Eve—while standing out from the sea of red and green glitter. But since it also plays as a neutral (silver jewelry goes with everything, after all), you can wear silver nails for the entire winter season.

 

The Food & Wine Holiday Recipes That Stand the Test of Time
We delved into decades of our Food & Wine history to share the iconic recipes we cook again and again. (And of course Julia Child made holiday magic.)

We’re living in an era of the ephemeral, of messages and images designed to evanesce as soon as they’re consumed, of viral recipes made for the eyes and the likes, but not for the soul and the long savor. In this context, it feels almost radical to commit something to print, and perhaps even more so to revisit and honor recipes from decades past. But it’s tried-and-true culinary wisdom and rigor, published in print, that has made Food & Wine who we are — and earned us a place at people’s holiday celebrations since 1978.
Holiday menus don’t generally happen by accident; they’re built and burnished over time, shaped by tradition and trial. A dish’s first appearance on the table is an audition, and an invitation to next year’s celebration is always on the line. For the past near half-century, it’s been our mission and our joy at Food & Wine to present our readers with rigorously tested new recipes to brighten their holiday tables — recipes we hope will become future heirlooms as they have at ours.

 

America’s Gingerbread Displays Dazzle With Villages, Dinosaurs, and More
‘Tis the season for the sweetest architecture tours.

There’s something delightfully analogue about gingerbread during the holidays. Gingerbread houses have more than 200 years of history, popularized after the publication of Hansel and Gretel, and we still build the quaint, seasonal dwellings with much of the same materials as in the days of yore: spiced cookies, icing, and candies that would have appealed to hungry German children in the early 19th century.
Canonical among the world’s sweetest holiday traditions, nowadays Germany tends to keep its gingerbread in individual cookie form, but Europe still boasts the world’s largest gingerbread town: Bergen, Norway’s annual Gingerbread Village. Stateside, gingerbread is one of the festive and flavorful ways that domestic hotels are celebrating the holidays, with sweet and spicy constructions at notable properties such as the Fairmont San Francisco, Charleston’s Hotel Bennett, and Asheville’s The Omni Grove Park Inn.

 

Comparing the Cast of the Beatles Biopic to Their Real-Life Counterparts
A four-part Beatles biopic is currently in the works, directed by Oscar winner Sam Mendes, penned by industry stalwarts Jez Butterworth, Peter Straughan, and Jack Thorne, and starring some of the most in-demand actors working today. Before the four interconnected films—one from each band member’s point of view—hit the big screen in April 2028, here’s a full breakdown of who’s playing who in the Beatles biopic.

 

The Year in Billboard Chart Feats, By the Numbers: From 1 to 4.002 Million
A look at 25 chart highlights from 2025.

2025 marked yet another year of record-breaking, and in some cases record-obliterating, achievements on Billboard’s charts.
Taylor Swift rewrote the mark for the most No. 1 albums on the Billboard 200 among soloists, 15, scoring the honor with the debut of her latest smash LP, The Life of a Showgirl, which launched with more than 4 million equivalent album units earned in the United States in its first week, according to data tracker Luminate. The arrival soared past the prior mark of nearly 3.5 million first-week units for Adele’s 25 a decade earlier.
On the Billboard Hot 100, Mariah Carey’s “All I Want for Christmas Is You” claimed the record for the most weeks at No. 1: 20, running up its haul of holiday time atop the chart that began in 2019.

 

Joel Edgerton Enters the Train Dreams Discourse
In Train Dreams, Clint Bentley’s adaptation of the Denis Johnson novella, Joel Edgerton plays Robert Grainier, a laborer in the American West grappling with encroaching modernity while trying to protect his family. When it premiered last year at Sundance, the movie played like a meditative arthouse drama—because once, that’s exactly what it would have been. But when Netflix bought the film for $10 million, its trajectory shifted. Since dropping on the streamer last month, it has struck a specific chord online, finding a loud audience for its quiet devastation. For Edgerton, the project marks a line in the sand. Now a father, he found the distance between his real life and his character collapsing for the first time. He hopped on a call with us to discuss the trickle-down economics of Hollywood casting, his response to the Train Dreams discourse, and why he’s finally done hiding.

 

How to Eat Blue Cheese the Right Way, According to a Cheesemonger
Our guide to enjoying one of the cheese world’s most misunderstood stars.

Blue cheese has a reputation: bold, tangy, and sometimes intimidating—not to be confused with a bully, but easily misunderstood. While its striking veining and assertive flavor can make some hesitant at first bite, the right approach reveals a cheese that is creamy, nuanced, and endlessly versatile—one that deserves a place on your cheeseboard and is a versatile ingredient. We spoke with an American Cheese Society Certified Cheese Professional and blue cheese lover to learn more about this sometimes maligned type of cheese and find out how to eat blue cheese. She is our enthusiastic guide as we explore the subtle sweetness, layered complexity, and surprising nuances that make blue cheese such a fascinating and rewarding indulgence.

 

How to Get Rid of Pilling on Clothes Quickly and Safely
Your favorite knits deserve better.

Even the most thoughtfully cared-for wardrobe pieces can begin to show signs of wear over time. Soft sweaters develop fuzz along the sleeves, leggings collect tiny fiber balls at the thighs, and well-loved tees lose their smooth finish. Pilling is one of the most common forms of everyday fabric wear, but it does not have to shorten the life of your clothes.
With the right tools and a gentle approach, you can restore your garments and help prevent that fuzz from forming in the first place.

 

How to Freeze Oranges: The Best Methods for Whole Fruit, Segments, Juice, and Zest
A citrus expert explains the best ways to preserve every part of this favorite fruit.

Oranges often arrive by the dozen in winter—gift boxes, market sales, and peak-season deals all add up. If your counter is overflowing and the refrigerator is full, freezing can help you stretch that bounty into spring. Freezing oranges is not a compromise. Jennifer Hillis, registered dietitian and citrus nutrition research liaison at the University of South Florida, notes that citrus of all kinds freezes beautifully. “Freezing will not affect the flavor—it will preserve it!” she says. Every part of the orange can be frozen. She explains how to freeze orange segments, slices, supremes, orange juice, zest, and even the whole fruit.

 

It’s Holiday Road Trip Season—These Are the Essential Tips and Tricks Professional Drivers Actually Rely On
There’s nothing quite like a road trip. But there are a few things to keep in mind.

With holiday airfare climbing and flight cancellations becoming more common, driving is a popular alternative for holiday travel. To help you prepare for your next long drive, we asked professional drivers, from tour bus operators to long-haul truckers, for the essential tips and tricks they rely on during winter travel.

 

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I'm fascinated by the legal gray area in which YouTube appears to operate. For instance, I love falling asleep on the couch during the holidays while watching old Christmas specials on TV. Like a reliable radio station of my youth,...

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These neighbors need to band together before this HOA board spirals even further out of control.

Look, there are very few individuals in this world who enjoy being a part of an HOA community. The only people we can think of are the kinds who volunteer to be on the board of said associations. You probably know the type. These folks are either stuck in a traditionalist mindset about what community standards should like. Alternatively, they could also be the kinds of people who want to reclaim leadership positions they hadn't held since middle and high school. 

To put it simply, these individuals love bossing people around to no end. They have no issue making enemies with the families that live next door, so long as they have whatever false sense of authority they think they have gained by being one of the few people with enough free time to attend board meetings. 

Unfortunately for this author and her neighbors, this HOA board has done far more than just enforce bogus rules and regulations. In fact, they don't even care about the bylaws. They have been circumnavigating the handbook and fining people left and right before policies and protocol that do not even exist!

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I've been thinking about Wake Up Dead Man some more even though I haven't gone and looked up the list of books, because I am not ready to purchase new ebooks yet, and that's what I'll have to do for the ones there I haven't read before.

Meanwhile though, I have been rereading some Agatha Christie. I am not exactly a giant Christie fan, but I have read most of Agatha Christie's works (and usually multiple times) because I like Golden Age mystery as a genre and my MIL was a superfan, so I have had convenient access to paperbacks of Christie's works.

And I realized with a start yesterday that while the setting and setup in Wake Up Dead Man is in some respects is EXTREMELY typical of Golden Age detective fiction, in another it's very very unusual - Some spoilers )

Recent reading

Dec. 19th, 2025 08:32 am
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Read A Truce That Is Not Peace by Miriam Toews, a slim, unconventional memoir. Framed as her repeated failure to respond to the prompt why do you write? to the satisfaction of a literary conference in Mexico City (she was eventually uninvited), it reads like a commonplace book: a mix of anecdotes, and copies of letters Toews exchanged with her sister over the years (the answer to why do you write? being, originally, because she asked me to), and musings on the concept of a "wind museum", and random quotes and poetry and historical figures who died by suicide. It helped to know a bit about Toews' background - mostly that she was raised Mennonite and that both her father and sister died by suicide - because eventually both of those things are clearly stated, but I did get a sense that she presumed someone picking up Toews' personal non-fiction on why she writes has already read at least some of her novels, many of which have drawn-from-life elements.

In other writing about writing, I received This Year: 365 Songs Annotated: A Book of Days by John Darnielle as an early birthday/Christmas gift - an illustrated, annotated collection of the Mountain Goats' lyrics - and, of course, immediately just skimmed it for my favorite songs, which quickly turned into reading random chunks because each "annotation" is a short paragraph, max - sometimes about the context for writing the song, or commentary on the characters/story, or what inspired it, or how people respond to it, or some observation/quote/etc. that is not obviously related to the song in any way - so once you've opened it to a specific page it's easy to just keep going for a while, and anyway, now I have to figure out to actually read this book. Just read it cover to cover? Listen to each song in the order they appear, and read the accompanying passage? (Which is a cool idea, but would take forever. Theoretically, I could do one song per day, devotional-style, but I know my attention span well enough to know that's not happening.)

fic rec Friday

Dec. 19th, 2025 07:47 am
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freaky, by ExtraSteps

Shane is in Ilya's body, desperately avoiding Svetlana Vetrova, throwing out his cigarettes and battling his depression.

Ilya is in Shane's body, playing with Hayden Pike's children, being smothered with love by Yuna and David Hollander, and wondering why Rose Landry is trying to set him up with her gay actor friend Miles.

Boston travels to Montreal in two weeks.

Everything is fine.

Drama watching

Dec. 19th, 2025 01:55 pm
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My elbow hurts a bit less today, so here have a short drama watching report. Plus a very short review of one movie. 😊

The Price of Confession

It was amazing till the end. I was a tiny bit disappointed with ‘who the real murderer is’ reveal, but really just a teeny tiny bit. It didn’t detract from the amazingness of the rest of the drama. And Kim Go Eun, wow... 😍 What a fantastic actress she is. I mean I knew she was good, but here it’s like another level. I’m very impressed and so in love.

You can say Kim Go Eun is my new obsession, since after finishing this drama I instantly watched Love in the Big City (a movie with her and Steve Noh, not a drama with Nam Yoon Su). Now I plan to watch a horror movie Exhuma, and later I will either re-watch The King Eternal Monarch, or start watching You And Everything Else.


10 Dance

It was wonderful. Machida Keita and Takeuchi Ryoma have sizzling chemistry, and for my non-expert eye are very good at dancing. And they are very good at kissing, too. 😊 I will be re-watching for sure, probably more than once.

The ending seems a bit open. In the sense that it ended as if the sequel was already planned. As far as I know the manga this movie is based on is still ongoing, so here is hoping we will get a sequel in the future.


Dare You to Death

Okay, it feels so weird to watch GMMTV BL drama on Netflix instead of Youtube, heh. But that way it’s not divided into four short vids, so it’s a big plus.

After the 1st episode my opinion is this – it’s entertaining and amusing. I admit I did expect something a bit more darker and grimmer. And judging by that first episode it’s seems to have a surprisingly light, and often even humorous tone, considering the subject matter.

But the main criminal mystery is interesting enough, supporting character are played by actors I like, and both Joong and Dunk look hella fine and have great chemistry. So I do plan to watch more. And it’s nice to have a BL drama to watch on Thursdays.


Heated Rivalry

I’ve just finished watching the 5th episode. It was fine. I wish I liked Shane and Ilya (well, mainly Ilya, I like Shane well enough) and their relationship more, so I could be again in a big, thriving fandom with a lot of fics and discussions. Alas, it was not meant to be, since here I am once again falling in love with a rare pairing. 😊


More here with spoilers.I wish there was a bit more about Scott and Kip in this episode. I would be satisfied even with one or two short scenes. Because what I loved the most here was that last scene with the kiss on ice. It was wonderful.

I also really liked Shane and Rose’s talk when they break up and he comes out to her. It was very well done and very well acted. I love Rose in general, she’s a great character.

Fanart Friday has arrived.

Dec. 19th, 2025 01:46 pm
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Rec-cember Day 19


A bunch of BG3 fanarts, heavy on the ladies. )
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Posted by Lana DeGaetano

When an unhelpful, negative-minded coworker retires, it's safe to say that you probably won't miss them very much. Their attitude negatively impacted your work, your morale, and most importantly, your peace of mind. Farewell parties are typical workplace protocol, but that doesn't mean you should be expected to cough up hundreds of dollars on a gift for the retiree, especially if they very clearly don't deserve it. Shouldn't the gift be on the company dollar instead?

The concept of a "mandatory" gift at the expense of employees' finances is preposterous, and management should be help accountable whenever they pressure their employees to spend their hard-earned money on someone they don't even like.

In the story below, an employee explains that they flat-out refused to contribute to their colleague's farewell gift on principle. Not only is an expected $100 contribution entitled, but the colleague in question went out of her way to be as unhelpful as possible to the employee. In what world should the employee reward bad behavior?

What would you do in this situation? On the one hand, other colleagues might feel pressured to contribute more money. However… The employee is setting a precedent that they should not be expected to front any bills for gift-giving. Scroll to read the entire story.

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I did not go downtown today. I still got in some shopping, but only because I needed both milk and gas, so stopped at Stewart’s. And I might have stopped at the Price Chopper that’s ‘in the other direction’ to see what they had.

I visited my aunt, hit the post office to mail a couple more cards, hand-washed dishes, went for several walks with Pip and the dogs, cut up chicken for the dogs' meals, and scooped kitty litter. I got leftover pulled pork out of the freezer for Pip’s supper.

I wrote ~600 words on my second fic for [community profile] fandomtrees! First draft is done, so I just need to get it typed in and edited. I read more in Boyfriend Material and watched another ep of The Pitt.

Temps started out at 30.9(F) and dropped to 22.1 before I left the house a couple hours later!! The forecast called for the overnight low to be 21, but we were skeptical of that because it was still 39.9 when we went to bed. Apparently Mother Nature was determined to get close to that forecasted low! All the snow that melted yesterday re-froze overnight, so that was fun. Temps reached 50.4 and we had sun today!

Tomorrow is supposed to be a high of 54 with rain in the morning and snow in the afternoon, which means a huge and sudden temperature drop. That’ll be more fun.

P.S. Thank you to everyone who has commented on my aunt update posts. I appreciate the hugs and suggestions.


Mom Update:

Mom is not doing well. more back here )

podcast friday

Dec. 19th, 2025 07:02 am
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 This week's episode is Wizards & Spaceships' latest, "Postcolonialism in SFFH ft. Suzan Palumbo." Suzan is a rising star in the Canadian speculative fiction scene and also just a very lovely, funny person. In the episode, she discusses the tropes and traditions that are baked into genre that reinforce colonialist mindsets, and the BIPOC authors pushing back against it. It's really good go listen.
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