Civil
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The game started at noon, so I think a lot of vendors figured it wasn't worth coming out to Market. Lots of empty spaces, and quite a few folks who usually get a 4x4-foot space found themselves expanding into a full eight-foot square.
Including my neighbor for the day, a jeweler named Be, selling necklaces and bracelets with crystals and semi-precious stones. A bit of a tough sell, her price point was above the average for this Market, and pitching the healing power of various crystals didn't seem to help. She said she estimated her prices based on time and cost of materials, then checked against what ChatGTP thought she should charge, and how does that even work?
I'm sure it didn't help that her neighbors were selling appreciably better than she was. Jim the glass artist was having a particularly good day, I was above average for me, which is close to unattainable to a lot of vendors. Even Jesse started out the morning with an early sale of two bug-and-butterfly shadow boxes, and sold steadily the rest of the day.
Saw a lot of folks in Oregon green and yellow early on, but only one old duffer in an OSU hat. None actually buying anything, of course; they can come to Saturday Market any time, and at this point in the year, they're mostly asking if we'll be at Holiday Market. Still, I needed to be there for a couple of orders to pick up. (Only one of whom actually did, but she bought two cat stew mugs, so there'd be a spare if her mom broke one again.)
Had a bunch of repeat customers, though, one picking up a pair of plates to fill out her set, another young couple continuing to add to their collection. Best sale of the day went to a woman buying a wedding present, who couldn't decide between a barn owl serving bowl and barn owl platter. So she bought both.
Had a mother and daughter come in with sad news: the pie plate daughter had bought for mother's day split on first use. Not in the oven, actually, cold on the edge of the sink as mom was scooping out the remains of the pie. I offered to replace it, of course--I stand by my work--either a different pattern from current stock or the same pattern from my next firing. Mom asked if she could replace it with something else of similar value, which I of course agreed to. She picked out a stick butter dish which was a direct price match and went home satisfied. I'll probably glue the plate back together--it's quite a nice otter and baby pattern--and hang it on the wall of shame in my studio.
Saw a couple of crow-themed t-shirts: Jesse, my neighbor, had one that said Crows, not Bros: Support your local Murder. And someone walking by had a crow-patterned shirt that read F-(caw)f! (Say it out loud...) So it's probably appropriate that I took a special order for two raven bowls, a soup and a toddler.
Never was super busy, but never got slow enough to pull my Kindle out of the bag. The last end-of-day dinner plate sale brought me over $800, a worthwhile outing.
Writerly Ways
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OPEN CALL
Christmas Ghosts Short Stories Seasonal ghosts and spirits for Christmas
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Wars in the Stars Short Stories space stories that burst with imagination… and war!
In the Words of a Flower All stories should incorporate an aspect of floriography, the language of flowers. (deadline is this week. Too bad I didn't see this when it opened, it could have been interesting)
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Daily Happiness
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2. I had some nice snuggle time with Ollie this morning. Actually both yesterday morning and this morning. He just hopped up on my lap and napped for a while. *_*
3. This is a new box. Exactly the same shape as two other boxes we already have in the living room, but everyone is super into it, so I guess we can't get rid of this one now lol.

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There is a lot of awkwardness during the period of time when you know you are about to get fired, but there is still bureaucracy to follow that makes the entire process last several days.
What do you say to your coworkers? How do you act around your boss? When do you gather up your things and clear out your desk?
However, having those few days to adjust to a new normal is a whole lot better than the alternative–getting fired on the spot and without any notice. How awkward is it to go to work one day, thinking everything is great, only to have your entire world flipped upside down as you leave a few hours later, saying a final goodbye to your shocked coworkers while holding a box of your things?
Apparently, if you work with a company like the one below, in order to have the security of the first option, you must not work there as a contractor. If you do, the manager will have no problem firing you without notice. But at least you will also have no problem quitting without notice, just like the contractor in the story below did…
The Lesson of the Burned World
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2000 years into the future, a trio of youth from the Jaffa Nation are thrown into an adventure while investigating the destruction of earth and the narrative surrounding it. [Squel to The Unwritten Element]
Words: 20943, Chapters: 11/20, Language: English
Series: Part 2 of Cycle of Hubris
- Fandoms: Stargate SG-1, Stargate Atlantis, Stargate Universe, Stargate - All Media Types, Naruto (Anime & Manga)
- Rating: Teen And Up Audiences
- Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings
- Characters: Original Characters, Uchiha Madara
- Additional Tags: Original Character(s), Jaffa (Stargate), Alternate Universe - Future
Riddle me this
Sep. 22nd, 2025 12:32 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
I mean, it's made from either cellulose (paper, corn, rice, soy) or clay. Most common additives are baking powder or charcoal. Most fragrances are plant-based. Is there a type of non-vegan cat litter available?
Saw just the sweetest little cat yesterday
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Fic meme from
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Share the first and last lines of the last five stories you have posted to AO3.
The Fire and the Ember, Masters of the Air, Marge/Peggy
First: They didn't really need to climb in through Marge's bedroom window, it wasn't like her parents didn't know that Peggy was spending the weekend, but it was tradition at this point.
Last: She pressed her nose against the back of Marge's neck, and did just that.
A Fire in Arkansas, Band of Brothers, Johnny/Bull
First: Johnny figured that the old saw "smooth runs the water where the brook is deep" had been invented by someone who'd known Bull Randleman, but even he didn't expect what his corporal said as they sat in a meagre pool of shade half a mile out of Helena, Arkansas.
Last: He clapped Bull on the arm, Bull shoved him back, and they jogged forward towards the rising sun.
Natasha's Christmas Plans, Top Gun: Maverick, Natasha/Callie
First: "So here's the plan," Natasha said as she closed the hatch to the stateroom she shared with Callie.
Last: First chance she got, she was going to find some plastic mistletoe to tape to the bottom of her bunk, but for now they didn't need it.
Across the Waves, Across the Heather, Kidnapped! by RLS, Davie/Alan
First: Alan landed on the deck of the Covenant breathless and reeling, all those good men dead, and nearly himself as well.
Last: "Oh, I could kiss you!" Alan cried, and then did.
Every Time He Hears Their Voices (An End of the Affair Remix), Band of Brothers, Don/Skip/Alex
First: This is the moment Don has lived in since the tenth of January 1945: He's tucked back away from the line, catching a few minutes rest as he tries to choke down beans that half froze the instant Joe Domingo ladled them onto his plate.
Last: This is what does: all of the days after.
Daily Check-In
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Open to: Access List, detailed results viewable to: Access List, participants: 27
How are you doing?
I am OK
15 (55.6%)
I am not OK, but don't need help right now
12 (44.4%)
I could use some help
0 (0.0%)
How many other humans live with you?
I am living single
11 (40.7%)
One other person
11 (40.7%)
More than one other person
5 (18.5%)
Please, talk about how things are going for you in the comments, ask for advice or help if you need it, or just discuss whatever you feel like.
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A little girl saved up every dollar she earned selling bracelets at the farmer's market to afford the one gift she always wanted for herself: Her very own cat companion.
There's a reason cat people are so devoted to their pets. Despite felines being equal parts fragile and formidable, cats have a way of carving out a place in our human hearts, wedging their toe beans and their tickly whiskers into our lives before they ever set foot into our homes. Oftentimes, kids lack the foresight to plan their lives around a future feline buddy, but this little girl is built differently. She set her sights on becoming a proud cat owner, and after a summer of making numerous handmade bracelets, she earned enough money to make her dreams come true. With all of the coins and dollar bills in her piggy bank, she traded her summer side hustle for a calico beauty named Catlyn.
Together, these cuties will have a wonderful friendship that all started because of one little girl's ceaseless determination.
Creators Revealed
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If you have feedback for the exchange, you can e-mail marriageex@gmail.com or comment on this post.
Hope to see you again at next year's weddings!
The week in review
Sep. 21st, 2025 04:25 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
1. Canned tomato sauce. We hit our favorite local farm stand and came home with apples, sweet corn, apple cider donuts (Denise's requirement) and two lugs of Roma tomatoes. Also mushrooms and green onions, which I sautéed and sweated, respectively, Sunday night. Monday, I washed and stemmed the tomatoes, cut them into wedges, and commenced cooking. Took a break at lunchtime, during which Denise diverted a bunch to be sliced and loaded in the food dryer. Cooked down the tomatoes, two kettles at a time, mixed in the mushrooms and onions, commenced to canning. Came up a little short on the the additives, so I ran some of the cooked tomatoes through the food mill to can as juice. Water bath canner, 35 minutes per batch; by suppertime, we had made and sealed 20 quarts of tomato sauce, 4 quarts of juice.






2. Threw and assembled two dozen animal banks, elephants and tyrannosaurs. Also 21 pie plates (not pictured).


The Rex's are lying on their backs overnight to let the legs stiffen up. Or possibly to encourage you to pet their tummies. (It's a trap!)
3. Tearing off and replacing the east side of my pottery shed.



When we bought this place, one of the attractions was available storage. There were not one, but two storage units adjacent to the car port. Denise took over one for paper; I got the other for pottery. Over the years, the east wall has deteriorated. It was never great--they'd nailed up a couple of sheets of plywood, cross-wise, with two-by-fours supporting them, slapped on some white paint, and called it good. The past two years, the plywood has started to de-laminate, and dry-rot has attacked the two-by-fours. I really wanted to replace things before the rains returned.
So Wednesday, I went out to Jerry's and bought two 4x8-foot, pre-primed siding panels, wrestled them up on the roof rack, and drove them home. My drill driver's battery packs no longer hold a charge, and DeWalt doesn't make replacements anymore so I borrowed one from the Toolbox Project on Thursday. Friday morning was devoted to tearing down the old wall, repositioning a couple of studs, framing in some cross-members. Had to make another trip to Jerry's for a primed 8-foot 1x6 and a couple of 2x2's for the crosspieces, but got the whole project done by suppertime. I still need to pick up a bucket of paint, but Sunday morning's rain did not get inside.
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Getting benefits from your workplace is great. Who doesn't love these little perks that make you feel less of a fool for subjecting yourself to the corporate world? Give us all the coupons and discounts you have, please.
The thing about the perks you get is that there will always be someone else who will try to take advantage of them for you. Usually, these people don't even work with you; they just want to benefit from you, whichever way they can.
Take the family in the story below as an example. They all tried to pressure their relative to agree to countless favors, all because of where they worked. They wanted them to pull data, submit a referral, and even their employee discounts. There was no end to their demands. Since the employee was not willing to risk their job, they refused all these demands and even walked out of the family dinner to make a point.
Would you have helped your family members, or do you think it is valid to set these boundaries? Keep scrolling to read the full story and share your thoughts in the comments below.
8 bits are enough for me
Sep. 21st, 2025 06:56 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
The house stuff continues to be a labourious swim upstream against a river of bullshit. Final
Turns out Original Contractor did not get the city to look at the foundations before closing up the walls. Which is a MANDATORY step. There also apparently needed to be an inspection of the drain that leads to the sump pump. I do remember the contractor talking about getting the engineer to look at the work, so I reached out to him to see if he could provide a report.
Engineer: You have to talk to [Contractor]
Me: [Contractor] hasn't returned any of messages for months. Did you do the inspection or not?
Engineer: I'll reach out to him.
So will I be able to close the work permits? Nobody knows! I'm hoping that the worst-case scenario is they have to knock a hole in the wall and feed a camera down. I have no fucking idea what I'll do if they have to rip up concrete.
Cry, probably.
Meanwhile, got the bathroom painted and managed to rescue most of the fixtures. Figured out that the wall lights are borked and tried to buy replacements without any luck - they have to be really short because of the tiny space they are squeezed into, but apparently wall lights are now something that you can only order online because none of the hardware stores I visited had anything on site. I was really hoping I could take a tape measure to them before handing over any money.
AND I tried to put wall-plates on all the outlets and switches and failed because out of 12 electrical boxes only 4 are set properly in the wall. So I have to pull the rest apart and re-mount them and fill in the gaps on the ones where they just cut a fuckoff big hole that the plate won't cover. How how HOW do you screw up such a basic fucking job?
I am taking next weekend off and I am going to visit friends. And there is a part of me that thinks I should stay here and deal with the electricals bullshit but - I have dedicated every single weekend to this fucking project for longer than I can calculate. I lost my entire summer to dealing with this. I deserve to take ONE weekend off, right?
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Mixing family and money is never a good idea, especially if you're heavily reliant on the money they'll owe you at the end of your tenure as an "employee" with them. The teen in this next story learns this the hard way when her older sister fails to pay her the money she's owed after eight weeks of work. The teen decided to take her sister up on the offer because she needed the money and figured it would be a nice gig while also helping out her sister. What she didn't know, however, was that she would only see $500 of the $2000 she was expected to receive.
Everyone struggles with their finances at some point in their lives… The common man's hardship is something most of us experience, so it's not unusual to read about the older sister's financial situation. If the older sister knew that she wouldn't be able to cough up the cash she promised her teen sister, you'd think she wouldn't have hired her in the first place. Now, the teen's older sister is trying to guilt-trip her into waiting a longer amount of time for the rest of the promised payment, using her daughter's birthday party as a scapegoat. Maybe the older sister should have budgeted for both the party and childcare…
第四年第二百五十六天
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囗 parts 3-4
困, sleepy/in trouble/to imprison; 围, to surround; 固, hard/solid; 国, country; 图, drawing; 圆, round
( pinyin )
https://www.mdbg.net/chinese/dictionary?cdqrad=31
土 parts 1-4
土, earth; 圣, holy; 在, to exist; 地, earth; 场, place/stage/event; 均, equal/even; 坏, bad/spoiled; 坐, to sit/to ride; 块, lump/money counter; 坚, firm; 垂, to dangle; 型, type
( pinyin )
https://www.mdbg.net/chinese/dictionary?cdqrad=32
语法
接 vs 接到
https://www.chineseboost.com/grammar/jie1-jie1dao4-answer-receive/
Using 对 and 跟
https://www.chineseboost.com/grammar/dui4-gen1-prepositions/
"Sorry" and "excuse me": 对不起, 请问, 麻烦你, 劳驾
https://www.chineseboost.com/grammar/dui4buqi3-qing3wen4-ma2fan-ni3-lao2jia/
词汇
愿望, desire; 志愿, to volunteer/to wish; 志愿者, a volunteer
约, appointment/arrangement; 大约, about; 节约, to save
乐队, band
运输, transport; 命运, fate; 幸运, lucky
杂志, magazine; 复杂, complicated
早已, (since) long ago
( pinyin )
https://mandarinbean.com/new-hsk-3-word-list/
玩玩
Qi Yu & Wu Qingfeng, 一念之间一在水中; A-Mei, 连名带姓.
总算凉快了一点,我开心。不过早上起不了床了。大家过得怎么样?