How do people deal with email

Mar. 28th, 2026 01:04 am
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Posted by Glinn

My email box gets 50+ emails a day. (It feels like 50+ but I'm not sure. Also depends on whether I recently went on an Ebay bender.) Of course the political emails are like an open stream. The bank, stores, credit card people, local events, electric co, phone co, vet, wordpress, receipts, news, people I choose to follow. I am way past the point of keeping up. How do you manage that or how have you managed to avoid that?

Several times a day I will go through and clean up several pages (almost entirely trash) but what is the point when I have 16k emails in my inbox? The first time my inbox hit about 5k I moved the entire thing into a new file to see if I would ever look through my email to find something once. Maybe once or twice for one thing that probably wasn't there anyway.

Do I need to setup a million filters so stuff goes into their own folders? Is that how people manage? I feel like even if I unsubscribed to everything it would barely make a dent. Also, about 30% of the time the unsubscribe button fails to produce the desired result.

Funny enough I went to college with Merlin Mann, the zero inbox guy. He had a dog named Chauncey. Also that college is now in the hands of the bad guys. I never read the zero inbox stuff but I'm pretty sure that is very old news at this point.

This 2024 question has a lot of good tips, though it is mainly for a work environment. It is too late for my work environment as my inbox there has about 60k.

Caesar dressing woes

Mar. 28th, 2026 01:00 am
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Posted by virve

Annie's Caesar Salad Dressing is gone from the shelves (and the internet shelves). Help me (hopefully) find a replacement!

It appears that it is no longer possible to purchase my beloved Annie's Caesar Salad Dressing. Can someone who has also consumed that particular dressing recommend a replacement Caesar salad dressing that is as close in taste as possible to Annie's?

Please don't tell me about your favorite Caesar salad dressing, or about a Caesar salad dressing that you think is tasty and amazing. I am sure there are many options, beloved by many people in their rich variety. But this is a "flavor match" or a "flavor approximation" question.

Other dressings I have tried so far: Brianna's and Paul Newman's Creamy Caesar. Did not like them / nowhere near the target taste.
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Posted by BigLankyBastard

How is "The two and the four and how to find them" a crack aimed at white people?

n this recent edition of "Jokes Seth Can't Tell" Amber Ruffin held up a prop/fake magazine cover as part of a joke - the title of the magazine was "White People Monthly."
Seth made a point of reading the teaser headlines off the magazine cover, which included this: "The two and the four and how to find them."
I don't get it and googling got me nowhere. Is there anyone Anyone who can explain this apparent funny dis on white folks?

2025: Many Things

Mar. 27th, 2026 11:21 pm
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It's very late March, I know, but better late than never. Most of this was written back in December/January.

Fannish things )

Non-fannish things )

Identify these songs

Mar. 27th, 2026 08:24 pm
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Posted by queen anne's remorse

Four mysterious musical tracks below the fold.

1) This one is (I think) a recent-ish pop song (within the last five years or so). The real version has a female vocalist singing indistinct words over an instrumental track.

2) This one I'm not sure where I heard originally. Not much to go on, but the original was guitar.

3) This one is a recurring melody from, of all things, someone's rendition of God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen. Now if only I knew which someone it was...

4) And finally, this one is from... circa 2010? Possibly a Korean artist, though I'm far from certain.

Quadruple hope me, oh glorious hivemind. I've had these bouncing around my head for ages.

On holding a mug

Mar. 27th, 2026 08:48 pm
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Posted by Art_Pot

What's your favorite way to hold a mug? Is it more important to prevent spills? To keep your hands warm? To prevent your hands from being too hot while keeping the drink warm?

Here is the proper etiquette from harpers bazar Singapore Here's the mug alignment chart if you're curious about how you stand. I'm neutral when the mugs hot, hot, hot and good/chaotic once it cools down

On Becoming a Cat.

Mar. 27th, 2026 07:17 pm
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Posted by JanetLand

There are five distinct steps to the process of felinization. Had enough of the world? Don't blame you. "It is possible, with practice and determination, to become a cat."

LGBTQIA+ News Post, March 27, 2026:

Mar. 27th, 2026 06:52 pm
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Posted by mephron

Welcome to the LGBTQIA+ News Post for March 27, 2026. Every day is so wonderful / Then suddenly it's hard to breathe.

The Bad News Today we're starting internationally. First, The International Olympics Committee has banned transgender women from all competition. The policy also restricts women athletes (such as two-time Olympic champion runner Caster Semenya) with medical conditions collectively referred to as differences in sex development, or DSD. The Olympic Charter reads, "Every individual must have access to the practice of sport, without discrimination of any kind in respect of internationally recognised human rights", but I guess that trans people don't matter for this. The Indian Parliament has passed a bill, which is waiting for President Nahendra Modi's asset to become law, that seeks to change how transgender people are legally recognized and alters their right to self-identify. In 2014, India's Supreme Court recognized transgender people as a "third gender" and affirmed their right to self-identify. In 2019, the Transgender Persons (Protection of Rights) Act was enacted, aimed at addressing vulnerabilities faced by the community. The new bill - essentially a proposed amendment to the 2019 law - centers on how a transgender person is defined. It will remove the right to self-identification, and will limit recognition to those defined by biological or physical traits. It will also make access to medication and surgeries require certification from medical boards and district authorities. Despite legal protections, many transgender people in India continue to face discrimination and limited access to education, healthcare and formal employment, often relying on traditional or informal forms of work. The government says the current definition is too vague and makes it difficult to identify those who are most marginalized and argues that the new definition will make it easier for benefits to reach those who need it; and protect them from discrimination, exploitation and trafficking. A board from the nation's Supreme Court has requested the bill be withdrawn as it violates the court's 2014 ruling on the rights of transgender persons. The UK Girlguiding organization has announced all trans women and girls must leave leadership positions and local troops by September 6, claiming that while they are still trans-inclusive but recent court decisions left them no choice. I guess now cowardice is a Girlguilding value. The Ohio House voted on Wednesday to move forwards on House Bill 249, which, if passed and signed, will ban drag and gender performances outside of "adult cabaret" venues or in any public venue where a minor may be present. It specifically states it restricts "performers or entertainers who exhibit a gender identity that is different from the performer's or entertainer's biological sex using clothing, makeup, prosthetic or imitation genitals or breasts, or other physical markers..." The bill's sponsor, Josh Williams (who identifies as a Republican and a conservative Christian, of course), states that the bill would stop transgender Ohioans from using gendered public facilities like locker rooms to change their clothing (because "being trans in public" is, in his eyes, a performance, I guess?), while referring to an event in Xenia, Ohio, where a transgender person was sued after trying to change clothes in a communal gendered locker room (quelle horror!!), and was found not guilty of public indecency by a judge; Williams finds this bad and says this law would prevent this from happening again. In Texas, Governor Greg "Hot Wheels" Abbot put out an order last year that no road decorations that were not plain lines should exist, after a recommendation from Transportation Secretary (and dweller in the UnReal World) Sean Duffy. On Monday, the Texas Department of Transportation started removing the rainbow and BLM crosswalk decorations from the south Dallas neighborhood of Oak Lawn, which has been the center of LGBTQ+ life in the city. This is after similar destruction in Houston and San Antonio, a request for a exception from the Dallas city exception, and the threat of pulling transportation funding if they do not comply. California teachers are pushback from the right-wing when teaching history, especially when it talks about the LGBTQ+ community. While it's required under California's Fair, Accurate, Inclusive and Respectful Education (FAIR) Act, the current regime's push against such things is making it more difficult, especially in the wake of the Supreme Court's decision in Mahmoud v. Taylor, which ruled parents could require their children not be exposed to lessons that "substantially interfere with the religious development of their children". Oh, and the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, the Mormons, would like to remind trans people that they aren't welcome for temple rites unless they detransition. Finally, an introduction to Katy Faust (no, that's her real name), leader of The Greater Than Campaign, a coalition of what she claims is more than 100 anti-LGBTQ+ groups working together to overturn Obergefell v. Hodges. They're claiming that children are "victims" when raised by gay couples. The Good News Delegates at the United Nations 70th annual Commission on the Status of Women (CSW) overwhelmingly voted against considering a proposal by the U.S. to adopt an anti-trans definition of "gender." On behalf of 25 other member states, Belgium called for a "no action motion" to block the proposal. Pakistan and Chile were the only two member states to vote with the U.S. against the motion, with 23 countries voting to block the anti-trans proposal and 17 abstaining. As far as the International Olympic Committee trans ban, here's comments from LGBTQ+ athletes on it: Caster Semenya, Nikki Hiltz, Harrison Browne (the first out trans pro hockey player and currently acting on Heated Rivalry), Devin Ibanez (the first out gay Major League Rugby player) and Chris Mosier. The American Medical Association reaffirmed its support for gender-affirming care. After the American Society of Plastic Surgeons released a statement advising against conducting "gender-related breast/chest, genital, and facial surgery" on people under the age of 19 on February 3, the AMA released their own statement, that:
"In the absence of clear evidence, the AMA agrees with ASPS that surgical interventions in minors should be generally deferred to adulthood."
It was interpreted as the AMA walking back support for gender confirming care, and one could see how the quote might inspire that. The American Academy of Pediatrics released their own statement at the time of the ASPS statement:
"The AAP continues to hold to the principle that patients, their families and their physicians — not politicians — should be the ones to make decisions together about what care is best for them."
Republicans keep trying to add anti-trans amendments to the SAVE Act. Democrats keep stopping it. That bit in the Bad News about the erasing of crosswalk colors in Dallas starting Monday? Meet Mason Whiteside, arrested for starting to repair them with spray paint and chalk on Tuesday. While the arrest was supposedly for a years-old unrelated traffic incident, he has pledged to keep doing it. The Colorado Legislature is considering a bill allowing conversion therapy survivors to sue for damages, suing the therapists and facilities that employed those therapists. While there is a ban on conversion therapy in Colorado, it is before the Supreme Court as a Colorado therapist sues to have it overturned due to its impact on her rights to free speech and the free exercise of her religion. Bridgerton's next season will focus on a queer romance storyline. Of course, people are upset - some for good reasons, some for not so good reasons (I mean, who expects it to be historically accurate?!), and some for general homophobia. According to creator Jacob Tierney, Hollywood execs wanted to tone down the gay sex in Heated Rivalry, so he went to Canada to make it. O Canada, thanks you for all the sex.... The Vortex As Pink News is moving to a reporter-free newsroom, I will be moving as best I can to a Pink News-free posting style if at all possible. The Cinnamon Roll Report If you're interested, toy company Hot Toys has released pictures of the figure of Din Djarin, aka The Mandalorian, for the upcoming movie. It has a lot of accessories, including the fact you can swap the head, so you can either have a Mandalorian helmet, or the very, very well sculpted head of Pedro Pascal. Abigail Thorn has confirmed she is she is returning to House of the Dragon as Admiral Sharako Lohar. Be well, friends. If you have news I missed or you want to share your personal triumphs, bring them here! Let us know your joys, so that we can offset the sadness and horror. I am beautiful no matter what they say Words can't bring me down I am beautiful in every single way Yes, words can't bring me down, oh no So don't you bring me down today
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Posted by kristi

"It is on us, the people, to show that we will fight to protect one another and our country." No Kings protests are happening all over the United States on March 28. Indivisible invites you to be a part of the largest day of protest in US history. The ACLU urges you to join us at No Kings on March 28. Unions like the AAUP and the UUP and AFSCME and the Texas AFL-CIO will see you at No Kings on March 28. The Interfaith Alliance will meet you at No Kings on March 28.

No Kings partners include everyone from GLAAD to SEIU to Voto Latino to Veterans for Peace to CREW to the Sierra Club. "This movement is for everyone, and we mean that:" on March 28, No Kings is offering two virtual events for anyone who'd like to join in but can't be there in person; in addition, No Kings is working to make as many in-person events as possible ADA compliant. No Kings, and organizations like Indivisible, offer trainings, toolkits, and all kinds of resources to help everyone take the energy of the day and continue to act for real and lasting change. "Throughout 2025, in the face of unprecedented attacks, millions of us joined together in our communities and held the largest single day of morally grounded, nonviolent direct actions by any movement in US history. Each time we show up, we disrupt President Trump's attempts to rule through repression and remind the country, and the world, that people power is our path to a truly free America." The resistance that's coming together to defeat authoritarianism is global - March 28 is also the date for the Together Alliance March to stop the far right: Billy Bragg calls for big turnout at London march against far right, The Guardian, Robyn Vinter:
Bragg said that [the far right's message] could be countered when people came together ... "You see a lot of people out on the streets marching for the kind of politics that you want," he said. "And you feel, for a moment, you feel seen. You feel that your concerns are legitimate. And that's a really important thing. It's the start of something."
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Posted by kristi

There's a jianbing place I've thought about trying, but I'm only doing takeout these days and it'd be about half an hour between buying and eating. I know the whole deal with jianbing is that it's supposed to be eaten RIGHT AWAY. Would a half-hour-old jianbing be good (just not as good as eating it immediately), or disappointing enough to avoid altogether?

If I do this, and get a jianbing to eat when I get home, should I try reheating it at all?

Would YOU get a jianbing to eat later at home? Or have you in fact done this?

Thanks!

open thread – March 27, 2026

Mar. 27th, 2026 03:00 pm
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Posted by Ask a Manager

It’s the Friday open thread!

The comment section on this post is open for discussion with other readers on any work-related questions that you want to talk about (that includes school). If you want an answer from me, emailing me is still your best bet*, but this is a chance to take your questions to other readers.

* If you submitted a question to me recently, please do not repost it here, as it may be in my queue to answer.

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Posted by subdee

During testimony before the US Senate, I called it the largest fraud in the history of the US immigration system. In fact, it is likely the first $1 billion fraud—a theft of processing fees for services never rendered. Even Republican Senator John Kennedy of Louisiana told me at the hearing that he was shocked it was happening. It is happening, and it is shocking.

Via Common Dreams: An immigration researcher at the Cato Institute found that the Trump administration is "raking in billions of dollars in immigration fees and not providing the adjudications that applicants are entitled to." A report published last week by the Cato Institute, written by director of immigration studies David J. Bier, found that the State Department and Department of Homeland Security were receiving millions of applications from immigrants whom Trump has made ineligible for legal status and pocketing the fees without ever processing the requests. "The US government collected over $1 billion in immigration fees then refused to process the applications," said Austin Kocher, a fellow at Immigration Lab and a professor at Newhouse and Syracuse University in a social media post breaking down the report on Monday. "No denials. No refunds. Just silence." *** Before this gets buried under the news about the ground invasion of Iran, which could happen as soon as this weekend, I thought I'd share this story about the government defrauding visa seekers en masse. BTW, No Kings 3 is this Saturday, March 28th.
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Posted by ssri

I am trying to research this idea and not sure how to look for studies/perspectives. How does one resolve contrastive self-perspectives in a group selfie where the default is the image is flipped to match a mirror look? Are there studies or papers on this? Experimental, theoretical etc... Where could I find something connected to this? I am familiar with pubmed, google scholar, yada yada, and open to a variety of treatments (artistic, scientific/psychological, HCI), but I am not sure what to search for.

Naively speaking, when I take a selfie with a phone front camera the image is usually flipped to mimic a mirror perspective (or the way we are used to seeing ourselves) which kinda makes sense to me. Or perhaps this is not the default. On my Pixel phone there is an option that says "save selfies as seen on screen" (which I guess is a mirror) is checked. In a group selfie, when the whole image is flipped, I get to see myself as I see in a mirror, while the others look odd because they are also flipped, in contrast to how I see them in real life. In turn, they experience the same thing about themselves and others. Then, are there perspectives explored seriously on how we might see ourselves in a group setting, say using the back camera with no flipping vs. front camera, or say the act of "selfie"ing itself informing the group setting experience and so on? Are there parallels to other forms of interaction/communication eg: talking or writing. Thanks!

Apologies for the confusing title if it doesn't capture what I am trying to convey.
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Posted by postcommunism

The Shajareh Tayyebeh primary school building in Minab had been classified as a military facility in a Defense Intelligence Agency database that, according to CNN, had not been updated to reflect that the building had been separated from the adjacent Islamic Revolutionary Guard Corps compound and converted into a school, a change that satellite imagery shows had occurred by 2016 at the latest. A chatbot did not kill those children. People failed to update a database, and other people built a system fast enough to make that failure lethal.


The Maven Smart System is the platform that came out of those exercises, and it, not Claude, is what is being used to produce "target packages" in Iran. There are real limits to what a civilian such as myself can know about this system, and what follows is based on publicly available information, assembled from Palantir product demos, conferences, as well as instructional material produced for military users. But we can know quite a bit. The Maven interface looks like a military-skinned version of corporate project management software crossed with a mapping application. What the military analyst building the target list sees is either a map layered with intelligence data or a screen organised into columns, each representing a stage of the targeting process. Individual targets move across the columns from left to right as they progress through each stage, a format borrowed from Kanban, a "lean manufacturing" workflow system developed at Toyota, and now widely used in software development.
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I almost never post about non-fannish things here. I'm making a rare exception for this one. ♥

The third "No Kings" event is tomorrow, Saturday, March 28, everywhere. Go to https://www.nokings.org/, scroll down to "Find an event near you," and enter your zip code or address. You can sign up or just show up. Be peaceful, be joyful, show each other we're not alone.

After, find the next thing you can do, perhaps at https://indivisible.org/get-involved/find-a-group/. Stuffing envelopes, writing letters, making calls, giving rides ... there's something that suits you that will help.

(Thank for your indulgence of this non-fannish post. Back to all fannish here now!)

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Posted by chavenet

Under microscopic magnification, the unique beauty and individual character of sand grains reveal a diverse origin reflecting geological history and marine life biodiversity. Sand is everywhere on earth – on our beaches, in our deserts, and on the bottoms of lakes, rivers and oceans. Sand particles are coarser than silt but finer than gravel, ranging in size from 0.02 to 2 mm. They are created when weather and chemicals break down terrestrial rocks, minerals, marine bivalves, corals, mollusks, bryozoans, and foraminifera.
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Posted by an octopus IRL

I am going to Greece! I don't know the Greek alphabet and, mostly for fun but a little for practicality, I would like to be able to pronounce words written with this alphabet. I don't care about meaning or vocabulary, just being able to read words (e.g. street signs) aloud. Looking for resources to practice this.

Specifically, I'm looking for a website that will show me a word in Greek and after a transliteration (definition too is great but not required, I only need to know how to say words), but I don't want to see them at the same time, I want to try to sound out the word in Greek before I see how it's pronounced. The page at https://www.greekpod101.com/greek-word-lists/?coreX=100 worked pretty well since I could scroll down slowly, see the word, try to sound it out, then see the transliteration and definition, but I don't see a ton of similar pages. Bonus points for something that shows you names of places in Greece with the transliteration (but, again, I need to see the transliteration AFTER I read the word). I don't need anything fancy, just looking to learn and practice. Thank you for any help you can provide!

Tracy Kidder (1945-2026)

Mar. 27th, 2026 07:27 am
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Posted by BobTheScientist

Tracy Kidder died this week, lung cancer. Starting with The Soul of the New Machine (1981) [Sada El Balad] Tracy Kidder repeatedly turned environments that resist easy storytelling into page-turning narratives. That was not achieved by simply choosing dramatic scenes; his work often confronted settings where "not a lot happens, " as he put it when describing the challenge of shaping life inside a Northampton, Massachusetts, nursing home for Old Friends. The craft problem was structural: how to make incremental changes and small interactions accumulate into meaning. The solution, visible across his books, was to treat micro-events as moral and emotional evidence.
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Fandom: MCU
Pairings/Characters: Loki, Thor
Rating: Gen
Length: 13k
Creator Links:
Theme: siblings, AU, fork in the road, character development, gen, politics, family,

Summary: "Because you are my brother," Thor told him.

(Politics and family on Asgard. A brotherly love story.)

Reccer's Notes: This goes AU just after the first Thor movie. It's a fascinating exploration of what might have been, and of Thor and Loki and Odin and what it means to be King of Asgard.

Fanwork Links: That Sheds His Blood With Me
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Fandom: BBC Sherlock
Pairings/Characters: Sherlock Holmes, John Watson
Rating: teen
Length: 3k
Creator Links: [archiveofourown.org profile] AJHall 
Theme: siblings, family, gen, friendship, asexual characters, fandom classic

Summary: "Anyway. Enough of my embarrassing sibling brothel stories. Tell me yours."

A Sherlock conversation, over breakfast.

Reccer's Notes: I am shocked to find that this fic has not been recced before! This is a such a lovely picture of John and Sherlock's relationship, contrasted with Sherlock and Mycroft's relationship. (Not all sibling relationships are good or healthy.)

Fanwork Links: Breakfast at 221B
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